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What's wrong with me (7)

1 Name: Lifebitesforreal : 2015-09-12 01:30 ID:9zi4mdW6 [Del]

Everyone I meet just leaves me alone and never talk to me again. If I say the wrong thing they abandon me. Years I have been bullied and called worthless but I guess I didn't want to believe them. My new school sucks i can't talk to anyone because I don't know how to, and then the friends I had at least I thought I had just left me. What's the point of all of this being here and everything?

2 Name: Ophiuchus !fiJUJ.LgmM : 2015-09-12 02:07 ID:mlUpDvvB [Del]

Well, I know this can be hard to believe but things do get better. And I know that talking to others can be terrifying, but you should do it! All friendships begin with someone being brave and talking to a stranger so take the risk! And if they dislike you, who cares? You shouldn't spend your time worrying about others if they won't do the same for you. And no, you are not worthless. Think positive, and drink water. You got this!!

3 Name: blank : 2015-09-12 03:04 ID:57gkxciu [Del]

most people I've met who have had this problem usually have a problem speaking to others correctly or come out socially awkward but really aren't. the solution is usually speaking about things you like and dislike to a group of people who sort of know you but don't really, and remember when you do this speak your mind completely don't make stuff up and don't go to deep when in conversation, if this is successful you may find people willing to talk to you. Oh and one last tip dont bring up your likes and dislikes randomly it has to relate to the topic, stay positive and be yourself

4 Name: mwah : 2015-09-12 03:12 ID:rwAynl72 [Del]

>>3 I 100% agree with this guy. Like will find like so long as you're honest in the first go.

5 Name: イサオ : 2015-09-12 11:37 ID:lM6NRmKM [Del]

People are selfish, they like talking about themselves. If you want "friends", (more like people who talk to you than friends), just ask them about what they like and keep asking about stuff they like, usually they love talking about themselves. True story. As for proper friends, well you'd need to find someone willing to listen ^unlike the above people (which is the majority imo), it's not easy to find a good friend. You might only have like 5 in the end who are actually proper good friends.

6 Name: PhantoRexi : 2015-09-12 14:12 ID:B/X0Wa8N [Del]

>>1
I feel the same way. My situation is different though.People admire me and say good things about me but it all feels so empty, like they were just faking it. The ones who call themselves my friends don't even bother to contact me or even hang out if there is no advantage in it for them. When they have no use of me, it is like I don't exist. I can be in the midst of their crowd and they don't seem to realize like I'm there. They act nice and ask for favours and, when I man up and said 'no', they didn't bother contacting me again. It's a good thing, I suppose, but, God, if it isn't so lonely. I'm now moving to a new place, a new country for the semester, and the same thing is happening again. Everyone is oh so friendly on the surface when they do notice me but there's no real connection. I'm finally in one of my favorite countries and yet I feel so blue. It's awful. Are those lifelong bossom friends you see in movies just in movies? Do they not exist in real life?

7 Name: Tokushu : 2015-09-12 15:40 ID:8cc+4gfZ [Del]

You need to know yourself first. Know your virtues and good things or what you can achieve in anything and become more confident. Because friendship is like trading. If a person see something valuable in you then he or she will have interest to know more about you. If you are not confident in yourself then no one will interest in you! So know yourself better. What you are good at? What you have that you can share with someone?
Otherwise people will see you like a empty vessel and people who have nothing but pretend to be something will bully you.