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As I said, there was a time I didn't have any true friends. I was very lonely without realizing it. I just didn't know what it's like to be really close friends with people. Now I remember there were some people who I called my friends. But I think we weren't really close.
Then I moved to another town. At first the situation there was the same. "People I call friends who are not really close to me". And there was a guy I hated a little. And we suddenly started to become close friends. He became my best friend.
The sad thing is while he was my best friend, I felt like I wasn't his best friend.
I hate it when something that was planned to be a story of my feelings becomes a story of my life.
What I wanted to say is this:
I had this feeling of being alone. I liked it and I didn't want to be alone forever. Now I sometimes miss this feeling. For me it disappeared when I started to hang out with that guy. Then it returned when I moved to another city and entered university, because I make friends very slowly. Then it disappeared again when I made friends here, at the university. I spent almost a year without having any friends here and then after a conversation that lasted an hour I instantly was friends with a guy who is now my roommate.
So, for me is wasn't something controlled. And I don't think there are a lot of people for whom making friends is a controlled thing.
So, I don't know what to say. Maybe you see you future best friend every day, but you just haven't talked to that person and you don't realize you have a lot in common.
Maybe we have a lot in common and can be best friends. You never know.