Hey~

I'm 16 years old and, like most of the people my age, I want privacy.
But that sometimes isn't very easy to get.
I don't have an own computer, no money to get one and my parents won't get me one. (I'm useing 3DS internet =3) That's not really the problem, since I can use the one in the living room. And here lies the problem. The people in the living room can always see what I do. EVERYTHING. And there's pretty much the whole time somebody. And I know they're looking 'cause they make stupid comments. And that kinda pisses me off! And when I say something about that they just say they wouldnt do that. That's kinda annoying. Don't get me wrong, I'm not fighting with them and the last time I said that was over half a year ago. We never really fight in our family (expect my parents) but that's because we aren't really close. But they still get pissed of really fast. I think my gamer brother and I are the calmest people. But my family isn't the topic of this thread.
I just meant to say, that I don't really say that it annoys me anymore, because they'll just be angry with me.

I would also like to be alone sometimes, not haveing my family around. The problem's that we're 7 people and don't have so much space, so we have to share rooms. That's not really a problem, and I understand that, but I don't like the current situation. After one of my brothers moved out, I kinda moved to his room and shared a room with my gamer brother. I really lovet that and I had way more privacy than now. After my older sister tried to kill herself in april, she moved back to us. No problem. I was told that she would share a room with my second sister. But because whatever I ended up sharing a room with my second sister. I don't like that because for one she's very easily offended. (last time I just asked her to leave the window open) She's 20 and doesn't work or anything by the way.
I also don't like it because the room has two doors; one to the corridor and one to the gamers room. So my gamer brother andmy first sister always walt through the room. Oh, and they always have their door open. My second sister hates it when I close the door to the corridor, so I always have two open doors. Much privacy, right?
That annoys me because I sometimes want to be alone for example to think and solve my problems and just sulk.
There is just no place where I can be alone, and that annoys me.

I just kinda wanted to say that.
(Well not exactly that but I kinda lost my point and witing with a 3DS isn't really fun.)
There is much more stuff I want to say and since I have no friends or so I'll probably write here more often. Sorry about that. Thank you for reading =3

Either learn to live with them or leave: go outside for walks or something. I live in a home with one Bedroom and six people now. It was seven but my little sister moved out with bf. It sucks not having your own stuff and that everybody has to share, but family is family. Love them while you have them. Maybe try bonding with them more and it wont feel so weird to do what you do when it's your turn on the pc.

Hi. Im 24 and I know exactly what you're going though because its exactly what I went through! I always wanted privacy too and no one seemed to respect that. No one took how I felt into consideration. They only thought about what made them feel more comfortable which I found to be really selfish. Also, I never fit in with my family. All my brother and parents ever wanted to do was pick a fight with me and then tell me how I'm a drama queen even though I just wanted to be left alone. Though no one has the guts to admit it, I was basically bullied. The reason we get treated this way is because we are so patient with them that they take advantage of us because they know we can never say no to them or that we will always let them have their way. When you're old enough, try your best to move out. It will be scary at first but there is nothing like real freedom and finally being able to be left alone. Try to have a good day today and remember that things get better. You just have to stick it out a while longer.