1 Name: Anniz : 2015-09-03 02:54 ID:wVo+ubM3 [Del]
how do you love someone? i have fallen in love before, but every single time i have gotten my heart broken. i am in love but when i see him i get these mixed feelings of both love that makes me want to talk to him, but just when i am going to do so i feel this sharp pain in my heart and memories flows into my mind, and that makes me just standing there and leaving him as a dream that never will become true, i know i know, i sound very depressed but really, i am not! it´s only love that i can´t take. i just.. i am just scared of it. i think i am scared to fall in love. but i guess it´s too late now. but i know that there are people who have feelings for ME. why me? the only one i have feelings for is a guy who tries to kill me whit his deep eyes and cute smile.. and i don't want anyone else but him, but don´t even know if i am ready for a relationship.. please give me some advices..
2 Name: イサオ : 2015-09-03 03:36 ID:xvoS6B0z [Del]
It depends where you get your definition from love from.
I think what you feel is that since your heart has been broken, you just don't want to ever hurt that badly again thus you shut yourself off to protect yourself from not hurting again. Completely understandable and relatable to many.
As for how you love someone, I believe that depends on everyones individual belief of what it is to love someone. For me I'd say that feeling in love is different from loving. I believe that feeling is not always right. I.E If you love someone you sacrifice things you don't want to. Though some people think different, that you should act on your feelings, so I guess it depends.
I guess you could just try go for it anyway, if you get hurt, there is nothing you can do about it, it usually means that you are true to how you feel I guess, if you weren't you wouldn't hurt. I guess that's a good thing in a way, just don't get yourself exploited I guess.
I don't think there is a way to love without getting hurt at some point. As for if you are ready for a relationship, I think only you truly know, I think you should also keep in mind the other person as well, are they ready for a relationship too?
