So ive met this new girl at work i find her pretty cute and shes got the biggest smile. I am crushing on her but the problem is I was ready to ask her out in 3 days. I guess i just felt that connection with her and i know its much faster than i usually move into a realtionship but what i want to know is have other people felt this way? If so what did you do? I have acted upon my feelings yet. Just taking the step to bide my time.

Go for it. Everyone is different so you can't rely on different opinions and other situations, I can only warn that romance in the workplace isn't the best idea. It can work sometimes but most of the time it can become really awkward, especially if you're rejected. You feel sad so you avoid them, and then they feel sad because they start to believe you were only aiming for a romantic relationship from the get-go and since they rejected you, you reject any further intimate interaction because the relationship wasn't heading in the direction you wanted.

I think that you should let her know how you feel about her first and really think about what you're going say to her when you confess your feelings. You don't want to just tell her that you like her, you'll want to explain why you feel that way so she understands.

Say what you've posted, tell her that you think she's cute and has an amazing smile and how that makes you feel, and some other reasons why you like her and then tell her why you've said those things, make sure she knows you're attracted to her. Maybe even just say, 'thems the reasons why I'm attracted to you'.

The worse thing to happen is that you say you like her and that's it. By just telling her you like her, she can twist your words anyway she wants to. If she doesn't feel the same way, she can hit you with the 'lets just be friend', or say 'I like you too buddy' and you won't have a full grasp of how she truly feels about you.

Telling her that you feel attracted to her will at least force her to lose a bit of her censorship when it comes to responding, so if she doesn't feel the same way, she'll let you know straight away and you can move on.

I know it's difficult, but when you say your attracted to her, try to use a more 'sexually forward' word, to force her to give the best answer possible, cause in rare cases, even saying you feel attracted to them, they can still be capable of twisting it to what they want to hear. The best possible answers being that she feels the same way about you, then you ask her out. and the other best answer is one that won't put you into a situation where you think there's a chance she might feel the same way so you continue to pursue her even though she doesn't like you.

but anyway, go for it! :)

P.S. my life's goal is to have my 'own' family and wife and I realized that I had wanted this since my early years, even when I was 5. I realized that it's what I wanted when I finished high school. So I've thought a lot about this kind of thing.

If you think you should do it, then go ahead.
It sounds rushed, but you're the one who has to decide whether you can take your relationship to the next stage.