>>2>>3>>4 You guys are unforgiving :O
Every human makes mistakes, and if I had a girlfriend that confronted me after finding out I did something like sexting, I wouldn't tell her that three years ago (I'm serious, this happened during that same time) I did the same thing with two or three other girls. I aam a completely different person now, and I wouldn't want the ones I love see every bit of my dark past.
I probably wouldn't do something like sexting when I'm in a relationship, but honestly, it's not that big of a deal from my perspective. If my partner then tells me that he hates it, I'd stop of course. Just because you're in a relationship you don't have to stop every little aspect of flirting with other people, it can be fun as long as you don't go too far, it can result in great friendships. Flirting excludes sexting, I just want to say that she's allowed to talk with other males.
Also, since you confronted her about that one guy, she probably didn't want you to hate her even more for it, so she decided to end the sexting with the other guy silently for the sake of your relationship.
Of course, all of this loses it's value if she does it after you pointed it out. But that didn't happen as far as we know.