hello well my problem here was that my parents dont even understand that im working hard to prove to them i am a good kid but i dosent make sense, and my real problem here was that they compare me to other people who is not me, ofcourse i dont want to be compared cause im diffrent yet they were comparing me

you know mainstream? customize/fit to survive easy as that try ti get a fresh look, go to a hairdresser for a new look and so on, well im about to loose some weight and will go to gym later on it helps or it will

Look don't worry about what they say and who you are compared to. I've had that problem and still trying to prove myself. I just don't pay attention to what they say and be myself. Please don't be discouraged by what your parents say. Be you and be proud. I understand that it is hard but once you get past what others say you can prove to your parents that you in fact are a good kid.

That issue resolved easily for me, since I would compare myself to others, I'd also compare my parents to others'. That made me and my mother realise that different circumstances and individuals lead to different resulsts. There will always be someone who's better than you at something, so always comparing and mentally competing is wasted effort. Just be yourself, and try your best at that. If anyone judges you for that, then that's just their buisness and you don't need to be swayed by their opinnions.