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Little advise (6)

1 Name: Q-1 : 2015-07-25 10:16 ID:fUSnFLgN [Del]

Hi there everyone, I just wanted to share my situation and see if you could give me some advise of how to deal with it.
I don't really get along with my mother and this last year has been really hard on me. She always says things that really upset me and she won't even apologize or approach me afterwards. She says things such as that I don't have anybody and that I'll never get anything worth it, that I am a horrible person,that se can't wait for me to leave the house... She makes me feel like I am not worth it and all the trust and self-steam I build on my own she destroys it with few words.
I no longer try to fix our relationship but I would just like to know how to make it less painful until I can leave.

2 Name: MekakushiActor : 2015-07-25 12:05 ID:DMBBRRvx [Del]

Come on the SKET Dan chatroom on the drrr.com Dollars Chatroom for help. The SKET Dan is willing to hear your provlem even more, and we can give some advice.

3 Name: Maxiez !yplfjELR4c : 2015-07-25 14:42 ID:8uHnOVKS [Del]

I have problems with my father. The best i can say is, talk with her the least possible. And when talk, make it as fast as possible

4 Name: Kuronaii~☆ : 2015-07-25 15:43 ID:RY8thrx3 [Del]

You could try confronting her about what your feeling to see if you could talk out why she says these things and let her know their hurtful ( although she probably already knows since its kinda obvious) You might want to bring a neutral party along with you to help the two of you work out your differences and issues and just make sure things dont get too out of hand. If this continues or get worse depending on your age you might want to let another adult in your life know what is going on. I'm always open to talk just email me Kuronaii.dollars@gmail.com or you could try the SKETdan chat room because its set up by a group of people specifically to help and support others.

5 Name: Lovely !YLCyt3kDBA : 2015-07-25 16:54 ID:XmcfhI49 [Del]

What >>4 said

Also, I know that must suck, because sometimes my family can make me feel really bad, but what I do is I go alone in my room and I talk to God (and if you don't believe, you can always talk to yourself, too) and by the end I always feel better. =/ You just have to remember that you are a great person and the most important person in your life is YOU. That way you can be happy. Whatever your mom is telling you is most likely due to the fact that she has issues of her own.

6 Name: ShinAttha : 2015-07-27 22:15 ID:E8kiVnPM [Del]

The new friend of my mother is a bother to me, I'd actually like to kill him, but he's already pretty old so I guess it's okay to leave him his last few years. And yeah, this is just my main cause of frustration in terms of family, I'm not thinking about murdering anyone.
I avoid my mother most of the time, and if she confronts me with something I'm uncomfortable with, I always act like a know it all, since I consider myself to be a wittier person than her. I'm also really apathetic towards her since I don't really care about her as long as she supports me until university. That being said, my mother is a great person that loves me a lot, I just don't think that she has any right to judge me knowing so little about me.
So I'm telling you what I'm telling myself: do not care about her opinnion. If she acts aggressively, be sarcastic and act like you're standing above her.