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Also, I know that must suck, because sometimes my family can make me feel really bad, but what I do is I go alone in my room and I talk to God (and if you don't believe, you can always talk to yourself, too) and by the end I always feel better. =/ You just have to remember that you are a great person and the most important person in your life is YOU. That way you can be happy. Whatever your mom is telling you is most likely due to the fact that she has issues of her own.