Hi, I'm Chrome, and for those of you who don't know me, name is Kyle. And I have 2... Above average ex-girlfriends with somewhat average intelligence, but they made dumb choices. The first of which (we'll call her... E) dumped me for another dude, told me it 'felt fake' and that 'she couldn't do it anymore' and I knew she was lying, so I confronted her and she told me she was gonna date another dude. I said cool, when really I wanted to tell her to go fuck herself OR I wanted to convince her to stay. After that, she lied to my friends and told them I 'tried to rape her' on the bus. I walked out on my friends for a few weeks. But, during the relationship with that girl, (E), I had been telling the other girl I had liked before her, (M), that she needs to step off, well, after E sent me away, I ran to M. She then transferred schools, and we maintained the relationship for about 3 more weeks and then we broke it off, we apologised, met up, hugged and made up, and got back together and that lasted 2 more weeks, she told me she had met another guy and I flipped out. I'd known her for 4 going on 5 years, and had always been there for her. Then she says she told this new guy whom she's only known for about 2 months more than she told me. She told him things she's never told anyone else. I apologised for being an ass, and let her walk out on me, I was done. I got depressed,I wanted her to understand what only I did. That I know her thought process. I know what her plans are given the situation. Sadly, we never once kissed. Now, 6 months later, E started talking to me again, M is ignoring me and I can't decide if I should chase either of them. As a side note, is it wrong to... Crave kissing after not doing so for 2 years? E was the last, M wanted to wait.... And NOW that E's talking to me again, when we sit next to each other, it... Feels like old times, the air heats up, my chest melts, and it makes me want to.... Ya know, attack her face with mine. Opinions?

OK so I'm not entirely sure about what happened between you and M (thoughts were a bit jumbled there) but i went through something similar. I think you should forget M and E. E has failed you twice now for some other guy. Sorry to say this but it sounds like you are just a toy for her. You the side nigga. You need a new girl in your life. But keep in mind if you want to just have some kissing time go for E, but keep in mind you are a toy for her. She will play with you and leave you alone when she finds something better. SO if you want, make her your toy, and dont expect more. Expectations let you down.

I mean, leaving them behind is a great idea, but even if I did, I'd end up encountering them in public quite a bit. Hell, id love to. Let's do that, cause being toyed with is not something I'd let happen if I could help it.

What I got out of it is that M doesn't view you at all in a romantic way. The thought might have crossed her mind but those feelings were not present. Since you've known each other for 5 years it sounds like a good friendship can be made. However I don't think it will be anything more than that. It is entirely up to you to try, or not, to make things work with E. I don't know enough about you, her, or the situation to tell you otherwise. But I do know it will never work, romantically, with M.

Knowing M told another things you didn't know makes me think she fell for them. For whenever I fall for someone I tend to open up a lot easier, and more. She probably didn't want to be so blunt and said she wanted to wait to kiss instead of saying she doesn't. But if it didn't happen that means she doesn't have those romantic feelings towards you. It is up to you if you want to keep M as a friend. Would you be able to shut out your emotions for her enough to make it work as just a friendship? Or would it just hurt too much seeing her with others and not having affection for you?

Also to answer the question about kissing, it is entirely normal. People crave sex over time. People crave being held over time. Just remembering those feelings associated with the actions can make one crave it that much more too. What really matters is are you okay with doing so. I hold out on some cravings due to the regrets that I know will follow.

Hey I go to school, and will for the next 3 years, with these 2 girls i had a similar situation with, (one i dated for 2 years, the other for like a month) and my girlfriend of 2 months now. Drop the 2 girls trust me it makes life easier, and you can be a jackass to them if you want to.

Quick update, figured I wouldn't leave you all hanging:
M and I are friends, things are going well, and I now know that I wouldn't have it any other way. E hasn't talked to me in a while, and dropping her has already happened. Doing good, let's hope things don't change.

Well, to me you should just find someone else. Being alone isn't that bad, you know? Go out with your friends, party and live. I believe you're still young, so you have time to do whatever you want. But if you really feel something for her, and you think she feels something for you, you can try again. But don't forget that sometimes, being alone is better.

You are kinda stuck with the two of them. Maybe you'll struggle some more and then be able to have a proper relationship, then again, it is likely that you will regret being so indecisive. Anyways, it's not like you cannot make mistakes, this phase will influence your future, you'll either get a partner or become wiser.
Are you trying to hit on M right now? She might not wanmt to go there again, but that's just a little warning, it's not like I know anything about her, but be cautious not to be deceived by false hopes.
To be honest, I think you should move on, enduring the awkwardness of meeting your ex in public. (Which is quite common, actually) However, if you want to try it again, because you still feel something, be sure to prepare for the worst.