>>14 Are you talking about me?
If you are, it's a bit clear that you don't really know what you are talking about yourself, at least in this area.
Spiritualists are literally the most trusted group of people one can talk to when it comes to things like this.
Therefore, I think it's fair to say that I know what I'm talking about. If anyone really doesn't believe me, or thinks that I'm lying, they could easily go do a quick Google search and see that everything I'm saying is backed up in multiple places online.
No one has to listen to what I'm saying, and I guess that there could be some people who would lie. However, I'm not one of those people. Believe me or not, that's just the advice that I was giving. I always encourage people to look into things on their own.