1 Name: Kyo : 2015-07-03 06:45 ID:4nVpMq/t [Del]
I'm having lots of troubles with my sister recently and im unable to understand her or get along, since it's really hard and for some reason she hate me, and i feel like if she had to choose me or her slow phone she would trash me!!
Okay, here is how it is:
If she needs something i do it with her and when she do things for herself she does them and try her best -always turns out bad in the end without my help-
And when i need her she is always making herself busy with other things while she is with me and latter on she brags about that she helped me and refuse to stay longer than what i asked even if for 5 mins. But i always help her out until she is done with what she's at. Even if i just want to talk with her she doesnt listen well and keep doing useless thing in her phone. When ever i complain a little she keeps yelling at me and slam the door while shutting me up, while i already stopped talking.
I dont think she is angry because im smarter because she doesnt know i am and i always hide that fact and say that she is close to perfect and she always likes that, but thats all she likes about me, that i always make her look good, but i always feel it that she hates me, she even say it sometimes as a joke and then tells me that it was not while we are alone and never thanks me for what i do to help in everything she does
The question is how do i make her stop hating me? Im sorry for the long post
2 Name: Maxiez : 2015-07-03 09:41 ID:8uHnOVKS [Del]
She's older than you?
if yes, this is kinda normal. And hard too.
i must say, some time ago I, too, was an asshole to my little sister. It's not like i didn't liked or loved her, it's just I didn't cared to give her attention
but after a somewhat traumatic event that happened to me, she gave me support, and I saw that my sis really cared for me.
If you want your sister to care for you, you need to "enter her world". Liking what she likes, talking about what she likes to talk, this kind of things. If she shuts you out, try again latter, give her space. If you don't give her space when she wants, she will be really mad at you.
one more thing. Go tell her that you are sorry. Say "sorry if i was being annoying. I really love you, you know..."
show her that you just want to be at her side.
good luck, friend.
also, sorry for bad english.
