so right now im in a conflict with my brain of giving a guy i like(ya im a guy too) a confession that i like him but im just not confident enough. any advice?

Do it for there. To be a possibility he says yes there has to be one that he says no but u should still try

Sure, there's the possibility of rejection.
But, oh, what if he doesn't? That should be enough to try.

Hey, just go for it. I've confessed to four people, and each time it was pretty nerve-wracking. Even when I confessed to the one I knew liked me, I was still super nervous. But it's worth a shot. If they like you, then good! If they don't, try to stay friends. If they won't stay friends, then that person wasn't even worth your time. If you get rejected, yes, it will hurt. But you'll get over it. And if you're still nervous, ask his friends what he thinks of you. That could help make it easier.
Good luck!

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

Before confessing to him, did you talked to him? Like friends?
it will be harder if it's the first time you talk to him
And it's harder to him to like you if he doesn't even knows you enough. Befriend him. Make him notice you.
Then, you should confess to him. Be well prepared, choose a place to be alone with him, and go for it.
don't think about the possible rejection.
good luck

Go for it even if ur afraid or nervous go for it no matter what, atleast u tried that's what's important because if u don't try then ur gonna regret it someday

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4bmQD4-NeIY&list=PL8j3a2osz9zZoZBwN8vxc06y56cV_2VBz&index=19

This song goes perfect with your situation.

Okay, advice time.
I have the same question as >>6. Are you guys friends, or is he just someone you watch "from afar"? I know something that could be easier, but the waiting will be agony. You could write a letter. Old fashioned, but effective. Ask him to tell you the response up forward, or write you back. The writing back option may lessen your nervousness.

If the guy isn't a jerk, he most likely won't do anything too scarring to you.

Source: The letter option worked for me. With the nervousness not with the dating unfortunately T-T.

I don't think you should make him think of you as a close friend, I mean, romantic relationships with friends feel weird right?

Its always hard to confess your feelings, but its much easier if yuo dont think about it too much and you expect nothing back from him

>>10 agreed. Don't expect anything back.

If something good happens, great. But honestly, if you live life expecting to get what makes you happy it just gets depressing. But absolutely, talk to him and get it off your chest. What's the worst that could happen?

I don't say you should be a close friend to him, but it's hard to someone fall in love with you just with a confession
talk to him at least one time
and yeah, a letter is the best idea for nervousness. But a direct confesion in a place with only you two could be more effective

I think u should first find out what kind of person he is and confess if u feel positive about it.