I'm 20 years old now and about a year ago there was a girl who made the notions that she liked me and I was focusing on school at the time and now that I'm not focused on school so much my heart keeps telling me she was the one or could be the one. I've been trying Facebook to reconnect but she is not on, what should I do,also I'm willing to do anything to get her to notice me.

Have you tried other social medias?

>>2 Can't you live without social medias ?

If that was about a year ago you should still have friends in common, find which is able to reconnect you.

But if you rejected her a year ago, you might be an a****** to try to date her now. You have to hope that she has still feelings for you.

If she was why did you drift apart in the first place? If you have feelings great enough why didn't those occur back when? Also it should be kind of natural if they were your, so called, soul mate.

Also even if you were focused on school the feelings should have at least had a say in what you did. I just think that means your feelings weren't all that great to begin with. I make time for another that I think might be the one, but it falls apart.

There are plenty more fish in the sea. Also ask yourself what it is that attracts you to them? Is it similar interests, hobbies, etc. If you don't know much about them then they most likely aren't your, so called, soul-mate. For you should know them a bit by talking and being around them if you did share similar interests.

I might sound kind of pessimistic, but I always think the same thing when I fall for a girl and they end up not being the one. That's just a part of life and maybe try looking for others than just that person.

But nothings wrong with trying.

>>4 we cant question the past u know? that's why he's here.. want us to help him solved it..

>>3 i agreed..

Dude, you ignored her 1 year ago, now it's going to bite you in the ass. If you really feel alone, try to make FRIENDS, you know, MALE FRIENDS, don't try to get a girlfriend.

Well I'm not sure how close you were with her before but you if you know where she hangs out you could "run into her" and then drop the let's-get-in-touch-again card and maybe set up another meeting etc (remember if your casual about it she shouldn't have any reason to say no). I agree with Hiroki though you should probably get info from any friends in common etc or the university she might be going to. There's always a possibility of her already being in relationship but worry about that later.

On another note ignore the people who are commenting here just to take a jab at your past "mistakes" you don't owe them an explanation. Good luck!

Thanks Adam, I'm going in this positive that it's gonna work out.

Also I didn't have much time to make this thread earlier and left things out, over the year I've always had here in the back of my mind, and I know one of her friends pretty well