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Just another "What the hell?" thread (4)

1 Name: ConfusedinLife : 2015-06-01 05:34 ID:Z0G+auwB [Del]

What are the rights and wrongs for you?

Everybody has their own opinions in life. If two people with different opinions talk about a certain topic, it would be like a World War III.

I respect your religion, but how if we talk about the society of the world here in Earth?

So... It's a little bit sexual but I just want you guys' opinions about abortion, loss of virginity for a very young age, and divorce.

These are just few of the things that people even way back in history is fighting about, so to you guys, what are these for you?

Thank you for answering... I just want to know what your opinions are.

2 Name: ShinAttha : 2015-06-01 07:27 ID:mL9jFVCe [Del]

Let me start by saying this: Sex is something I consider to be completely personal. It is up to you what to do with your body, the only objective "requirements" for sex that I can give are the following: Safety, mutual understanding and knowledge of consequences. The last point should be the age, as always, you can not draw a distinct line between too young and old enough, but I think both parties should be developed enough to decide matters for themselves.
I don't even think conventions such as "incest is wrong" apply to everyone, if, for example, brother and sister decide that they're attracted to one another and want to go at it, that's your buisness (Except for getting pregnant, the biological consequences are more than enough reason not to) Of course once again considering the requirements mentioned before.
So loss of viginity at a young age is something that, if it wasn't forced and the participants actually knew what they were doing, I consider to be tolerable.
Abortion as well, is something personal. If you think you can't raise a child and have no one to entrust it to, it's probably better not to let it live through such a cruel reality.
Divorce is something natural. I'd like to think that romance may last forever, but often, people change and learn that the person they once loved has now become someone else. It's tragic but everything has an end, you can try to reconcile and bring back the good old times, however, if that ends in failure, don't mourn it. View the past experiences with nostalgia and be happy you were able to love someone, even if that person might have changed.
This is all just my opinnion but I hope it contributed to your case in one way or another.

3 Name: gagiru : 2015-06-01 15:32 ID:W5DaoxCu [Del]

As far as abortion goes, I am pro-choice. Meaning that I want women to be able to have the option of abortion available. I don't know if I would want to have one myself, but I can't just deprive other people of their right to a safe abortion. And if they don't have the financial security to support a child, an abortion would be a good choice. It's better than putting the child into an orphanage if the parent decides the responsibility is too much for them.

For loss of virginity– I think that when it's a child and an older person, it's just predatory and that shouldn't be going on. But in general, sex should be for people who are properly educated about safety, consent, and the risks/consequences of sex. And well, that's not always the case with young people.
I guess as long as there's informed consent without manipulation or predatory adults or anything else, then I can't find much bad to say.

For divorce- what happens, happens. Sometimes relationships just can't work. If a couple chooses to get a divorce, if they think that's what best for themselves and each other, then they should.

4 Name: ConfusedinLife : 2015-06-01 20:56 ID:aNN3ykLi [Del]

Thanks guys, both of you helped me out a lot.