>>3 Well said, we are indeed here to help, those of us who run around helping...obviously...I don't think I should need to point that out, it seems redundant XD
Anyways, friendship is incredibly sacred and valuable to me. Having people you can truly trust with all of your secrets and feelings, from your friends to your family, is incredibly necessary to the healthy function of a person, in my opinion; just having somebody to confide in when you're down and not be judged is enough to turn a disastrous occasion into one that is only somewhat disheartening, and the recovery process is thus expedited. That being said, sometimes the people who impact us in our lives aren't always there to stick around, whether by circumstance or something more sinister; usually those who leave by circumstance are never truly out of your life, and when or if you get around to running into them again you know they're there and they aren't removed from the pool of those you trust. By something more sinister, of course, I refer to disagreements or misunderstandings or other such extraneous events that render continued relations to be no more. It's sad when it happens but most people will have experienced it one way or another; I know I've been through a few friends in my life that I barely talk to now, or I never talk to period, and sometimes it's upsetting, but what I do know is that there're also people who are forever and if you continue being cautious yet open with your heart you'll maintain stability in being able to entrust your friendship and love to somebody else.
That being said, your friend is just trying to look out for you. And as your friend, she shouldn't condemn you for making poor decisions and mistakes, because we all do that, and if we learn from our screwups then the offense isn't much of an offense anymore, but a learning experience. She should, in my view, try to be more forgiving and understanding of your situation, and simply stand by to help you out if or when things DO go nuts, because that's what friends do; we stick around to berate our other friends for being idiots or congratulate them for being right. That's all there is to it, no drama, no complete breakdown of trust, no stupid conditional ultimatums or stubborn bouts of situational ignorance, and that's how friends and family should be to me, plain and simple. Like I said, it's incredibly difficult to find somebody with whom you can trust to not judge you and yell at you for accidents to set you straight and stick by you to try to help you out, and in a good relationship you, of course, will reciprocate those ideals and such as best you can. Friends are for the each other, for the self to breathe vigor into everything around it and make things better for those involved. We need our love and friendship, seriously.
I hope you can work things out with her, and I hope your current boyfriend proves her wrong and isn't a tool, and I hope that in the case he is, that your friend will let you off with a playful "I told you so" and be there for you, to help you through the hard times always, because that's just how it should be. If you need anything let us know heheh...