>>1 I really hope you read this–
First, it sounded like it was a preposterous concept to you, so I just want to explain that LGBTA+ people who come out of the closet really should be congratulated, yknow? Coming out is /hard/ and we really need to build up a lot of courage to do it– since we're living in a world full of homophobia and heteronormativity, we don't always know what kind of reaction we're going to get. It's scary.
Second, yes there are more than two genders. And you don't choose your gender (or your sexual orientation for that matter). It's like how I don't chose to love chocolate, I just do. We just are the way we are. Besides, think about it– why, for the love of everything good, would we choose to be marginalized, discriminated against, bullied, and invalidated? Why would we choose to have people hate us?
Anyway– about that unpopular opinion of yours?
I can't comprehend why gay relationships would make you afraid. It doesn't affect anyone who isn't in a gay relationship. What are we doing that strikes fear in you? What do you think is on the gay agenda? Poisoning the water supply? Burning the houses? Because all we really want to do is live our lives, and I don't see the issue there...
And as for gay marriage– the only way it would affect the country is by making it more slightly more accepting and equal. It'd also make a bunch of people happy, which is definitely a good thing. I'm having trouble seeing your point of view. If you could help me understand?
You say that being against gay marriage isn't being against gay people… well, you definitely aren't supporting them, either. That statement doesn't show apathy, it's more than that– it's opposition. You are against something important that LGBTA+ people want and /deserve/. That's why you'll sometimes get a negative reaction when you tell people that. You're supporting inequality. It implies that you may think you have the right to take away someone else's right to marriage. Which isn't fair at all.
Even if you don't mean to offend… you are. I understand you have no malicious intent, but that doesn't stop it from being hurtful.
I just urge you to re-think this opinion of yours. It's oppressing, you know? When I read your post it just reminded me exactly how little power the LBGTA+ community has. It just made my heart sink.
I wish I could have a legitimate conversation with you about this, honestly.
– a kid who's still stuck in the closet.