Hello all~
The reason I am writing an asking for help is that in the past five night, I have been dreaming about a boy from school who I don't really like. To be exact, he disgusts me. The funny thing is that this happened during the spring holiday so I didn't even see him for a week, and he's still in my dreams. LoL.
We haven't really talked yet, maybe a few times.. Whatever. The main reason why I don't like him because he's a bad boy. I mean, he's addicted to drugs ( no kidding, for real ) and he gets drunk every weekend, hits on every girl he meets, etc. this guy is also supposed to be good friends with my cousin, and it annoys me a lot ( I already talked to him about this.. Once I even banned him from meeting that boy.)
So yes, in these days I had nightmares with him, in different styles - either when he tried to hit on me, or he was drunk and needed help, but all of those dreams were really scary, and now I'm basically afraid to sleep. What should I do? Please help me.

i never had those sort of nigthmers, but if you are afraid t sleep just think about things you like or occurences that happen on your school, your hobbys just don t think about this guy, he problay doenst even deserve to be dreamed about

After having those dreams I feel bad for him because he probably will have nothing in the future and none of his friends try to help him. I'm totally fed up with this because I don't even know him.

There must be something that makes you think about him even if you're asleep. If you feel like helping him out from his problems then do it. From what you said about him all he needs is better friends. But if you won't do anything it doesn't solve your problem. If you do, two problems will be solved. Think about that and try ro get some sleep
Good night:D

I would suggest trying to figure out how you feel about this guy. Whether you want to help him or if you want to avoid him. And, as for sleeping, I would suggest that you watch a happy cartoon or read something that gives you warm, fuzzy feelings. Anything that makes you think positive before you go to sleep. Listen to some calming, nice music that makes you imagine a beautiful, serene scene in your head. Also, drinking certain types of tea can help you.

Hope you sleep better.

I didn't dare to sleep last night thought, but thank you, I will try.^^

That just a dream but that not mean you will safe fast or slow the dream will come true well just be ready

Thanks, that really helped me to calm down... Whatever, in a month, he will gratuade ( or not if we take a look at his studies ) so it won't last long...

I think your just "JEALOUS" , "Envious" of him

Why would I be jealous of someone who has no future? I'm also a teenager and I can party but I'm not addicted to these things. That doesn't make sense to me, sorry...:/

maybe she just likes him..girls always get bipolar feelings. They always say the opposite of what they feel even though they are not aware of it.

sweets, salty foods, and spicy ones too I hear affect your dreams… trust me I've had kinda scary ( more on the word side than anything) of this boy at my middle school too where he tried hitting on me and everything and he was addicted to drugs ( not as much maybe as yours but still) and I hadn't seen him in a year!! you get those weird dreams trust me. quite a couple of times I have dreams where someone I don't know is trying to kill me and I end up taking the weapon from him and killing him! and you get a little scared to sleep. but in the end, they're dreams. (and if that song from Cinderella " a dream is a wish your heart makes" I'm scared for myself.) maybe try not to think about him as much and watch out for what you eat near bedtime and think on other thing before falling asleep WHILE in bed. hope that helps?

Thank you, I'll give it a try!!:3 Maybe that will help since I really love salty foods and chocolate, lol... :D