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How do I tell her? (12)

1 Name: Shikato : 2015-04-07 01:32 ID:Ehzu441V [Del]

Hey guys, I really need some advice about something that's been eating away at me for a long time now. So I been in love with the same person now for over 3 years and I have told her about how I feel about her. She didn't turn me down but she also didn't tell me she felt the same way. She was just shocked i guess about what I said and I been afraid to bring it up since. Now the reason why she was shocked is that we've know each other since before kindergarden and because of that she see me as a big brother. I can understand why she sees me this way but I don't want to be the big brother. I want to be her everything. So I want to tell her again but I don't know how to go about it with a straight answer.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2 Name: Haiiro : 2015-04-07 01:49 ID:fDX/JPwD [Del]

three years with no answer and she just see you as big brother go die dammit you just burden her

3 Name: Kuusou!v4RRDXulH2 : 2015-04-07 01:55 ID:oJ1nz1XA [Del]

Now now @Haiiro... Dude I'ma be straight ght up with you, your best bet is to come out and say it. In these situations i thino the straight forward approach is best big brother image or not. So just ask her for a straight up answer. Worst case scenario she doesn't feel the same but trust me dont let that make things awkward, just continue acting the same... Though i suppose that's easier said than done.

4 Name: Haiiro : 2015-04-07 02:19 ID:fDX/JPwD [Del]

yeah you are right sorry i'm just bit angry

5 Name: Kuusou!v4RRDXulH2 : 2015-04-07 02:25 ID:oJ1nz1XA [Del]

It's cool ^~^

6 Name: Shikato : 2015-04-07 02:47 ID:Ehzu441V [Del]

@kuusou I figured that would be the best thing to do. And believe me I don't want to leave it awkward. Like I'll be depressed if i get a no but I'm not gonna let it become a problem between us. She's still family even if we're not together.

@Haiiro I'm sorry you're upset dude

7 Name: Kuusou!v4RRDXulH2 : 2015-04-07 03:18 ID:oJ1nz1XA [Del]

Yeah @Shikato sometimes you just have to go for it. I was in a similar situation, she eventually fell out of love with me but yah know, these things happen

8 Name: Shikato : 2015-04-07 03:37 ID:Ehzu441V [Del]

@kuusou Yah i know what you mean. But thank you for the advice.

9 Name: Kuusou!v4RRDXulH2 : 2015-04-07 03:52 ID:oJ1nz1XA [Del]

That's okay man good luck i hope it works out for you

10 Name: Takuto : 2015-04-07 04:44 ID:sJVLzlkE [Del]

good idea tell her again you love her if you lucky she will reject you and she won't see you as her brother and if you bad luck she will be your girlfriend and break up in one year

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12 Name: Julius Bluemoon : 2015-04-07 05:56 ID:jcSdJ1xr (Image: 500x510 jpg, 64 kb) [Del]

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