I'm really conflicted between these two guy. basically to start from the beginning i knew this guy two or three years ago because our moms are best friends and i had a crush on him but he moved away and i didn't see him again. then a year later i met this guy and started dating him and he was really sweet and nice to me after the first couple months. then after that he started acting like a jerk and making up racist comments about me cause i'm white like and he's Indian. he started off by saying i'm a hillbilly and i have buck teeth and my face is ugly. then he started saying shit like since i'm white i should marry my brother. he would apologize after and say he was kidding and i forgive him. he doesn't like snuggling with me or holding me and i kinda feel like i'm just being used for sex and sucking his dick but he could also be nice at times and call me his princess and cute and adorable and say sweet things like he missed me or he wishes i was there with him. he's two years older than me by the way and is the type that always has to be right. well then one day my mom says we are going to visit her friend in South Carolina. i didn't want to go i wanted to stay home and play games but i went anyway. so we get there and we are hanging out in her friends back yard when their front door opens and they go to see who it is and they come back with none other than the guy who disappeared from my life two years before who i still had feelings for but since i didn't think i would see him i just left them alone. well i was there for two three days we hung out again. he acted like a jerk at first cause he kept calling me a weirdo and to go away. then it got to dinner and we were talking and having fun and he told me about a prank that you can put soy sauce in a person's coke or pepsi soda and when they go to take a sip it will taste incredibly gross and they would spit it out so my bro did it to me by accident and then i did it to the guy and he said if i took a sip of it he would so i did and i spit it out and he laughed and then he did the same thing and i laughed at him and we got along from like that point on. then i think it was Saturday night which was the next day cause we went out on Friday to eat dinner with everyone when he offered to fix my computer for me cause a blue screen kept popping up on it. so i let him fix it and basically it took the whole night to fix cause my computer is really old. so i was getting tired so i just put my head on his shoulder and he got up to go use the bathroom and he came back with his blanket wrapped around him covering his face. so i laughed at him cause he looked like a taco and i told him that and he said shut up and i went over and say on him cause he was laying down and told him to be nice and i would get off and he said he would so then i said for him to get out of the taco and he said no and i asked him why and said it was cause he was thinking and i kept asking what he was thinking about and he said it would make me run away and i said i won't and he showed his face for like ten seconds and said i think i'm starting to like you again and then hid his face again. i was in complete shock and ended up telling him that i still liked him too and that the feelings i had came back when i saw him and he came out of his taco blanket and hugged me and said he was happy cause he liked me since the day he met me which was two or three years ago, the same time i liked him. we have the exact same personality, like the same things, we act so much alike that his mom literally said i'm the girl version of him. he's sweet and likes to cuddle with me and hold my hand, like all the cute things and we have been through alot of the same things. he also feels like his girlfriend is just using him for sex as well. cause whenever he calls her to hang out and she would only hang out with him at night and drop him off in the morning. he's four years older than me. so basically i'm conflicted between the guy that i have liked for a while and is always nice to me or someone who is nice to me when he wants to be but constantly jokes around and i never know when he's serious and has to be right about every conversation. i just am really confused so if you could give me advice it would really help me alot. sorry for it being so long
It's good isn't it that guy really suit for you, just dump you bf and start date with him and tell that guy to dump his gf to after that you will regret it and realize what the hell just did you do
Its pretty obvious, go with ye childhood friend and both of ye can tell ye current bf & gf to fuck the fuck right off, since they are only using you guys fir their own self interest.
thank you all for your help. you all seem to think the childhood friend and thats' what i was thinking as well but i don't want to be mean but i seems like that is what i will have to do. thank you all again for your help.
