Hi so recently I've been thinking of telling the people around me that I'm agender (a.k.a i prefer they/them pronouns, can't associate with being either girl or boy, go google it) but... it's just not possible. I know that everyone around me are either girls or guys by default and I have this nagging fear that they won't understand... that they won't want to be my friend anymore etc... The country I live also happens to be rather, well, conservative about people who aren't anything but cis or heterosexual (im not criminalising those identities btw) so it'd probably be an unwise decision? Like it might affect my employability or available choices in life. Yet at the same time I feel thoroughly uncomfortable with leaving things the way it is... What should I do?

i think you just antisocial

If that's the way you feel about yourself then i don't think trying to change yourself is going to work (i know you didn't say anything about doing so). I say find someone real close to you or vary far removed from your life to have a real talk to about this. i mean sit and stare into each others eyes and talk for more then a hour about it, really find what makes you tick and why you've been feeling you need to "come out" to everyone. cuz if your fine with your self then.. who really cars if your family doesn't get you it's fine, you didn't choose them. and friends well, if there your real friends.. I'm sure you know where i going with this.