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do you love your brother? (15)

1 Name: munyamunya : 2015-04-02 09:06 ID:gF5jh1NQ [Del]

i have a problem with my big brother..
we're seldom meet each other due to our parents, we live separately
i really love and miss him, i always waitin the time when we'll meet and play or talk together
but recently he got a girlfriend, and he kind of dump me
it makes me sad
and now i think they got into serious relationship and going to married
and it makes me hate him, i mean, i still need more time to play with him, yet he gonna leave me soon
it feels like i want to monopolize him to myself, haha

do you think i'm abnormal? is it wrong?

2 Name: Random : 2015-04-02 09:46 ID:Iz/co97X [Del]

Not really... If you haven't been living together like normal siblings, then it isn't abnormal for you to have feelings for him. I personally don't get love, but I don't think your case is abnormal.
Also, even if you got together, your relationship would never be acknowledged by society.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2015-04-02 09:47 ID:yA8vfQp1 [Del]

sneak into his bed at night and suck his cock

4 Name: Magnolia!2ipznOcc5g : 2015-04-02 10:18 ID:h3qWxlCB [Del]

*stares at >>3*



.......................................Fuck You.

Now >>1, I hope you realize that what you're feeling isn't romantic love, but familial love. Don't get confused. Felt the same way when my brother moved in with his girlfriend and she got pregnant. He was my rock when growing up in an abusive household. It was weird for that rock to suddenly be gone, but I knew I was just upset that we officially would not be spending as much time together as before.

So just know that this IS normal, and ISNT romantic love.

5 Name: baka_Soda : 2015-04-02 13:35 ID:7J5lZ1qw [Del]

Oh, man. I have a similar situation, but with my "sister" (we have the same father, but i don't know how is called, sorry), so I understand what you feel, except that I don't hate her.
Just accept it, there's nothing you can do, at least for now.

6 Name: FellbeatKnightHeartbeatknight : 2015-04-02 14:15 ID:hHqF04ff [Del]

>>4 You're a very helpful person. I hope your having a good day.

<3

7 Name: Kokkuri-san : 2015-04-02 16:11 ID:JnqGDpH4 [Del]

You're completely normal and it isn't wrong : )

I've got a brother who's 20 years older than me. I do get those feelings of wanting to keep himself to me, sometimes I feel he doesn't care about me when all my life I've loved him. Yet i still feel the need to support him and love him like i always do, even when I wanna slap him in the face!
Even if hes gone off to marry someone don't ever forget or try to forget your brother, because he needs someone like you :)

I wish I never made that mistake with him.

8 Name: Magnolia!2ipznOcc5g : 2015-04-02 17:12 ID:h3qWxlCB [Del]

>>5 "half-sister".
My brother and I share the same mom, so that makes him my "half-brother".

>>6 Just got back from my job as a children's coach, so I'm feeling pretty good actually. Thank ya kindly. ;)

9 Name: Ignight : 2015-04-02 18:35 ID:GwggKDhD [Del]

Incest is best ;3

(jk) :D

10 Name: Takuto : 2015-04-02 19:37 ID:YGPH5lE9 [Del]

go monopolize him he's your brother after all

11 Name: munyamunya : 2015-04-02 20:22 ID:gF5jh1NQ [Del]

>>4
thanks, your answer is the best
yes i know it's definitely familial love, but sometime i really keep him only for me that what's make me feel this feeling must be wrong
maybe i'll ask him to spend 1-2 day with me before they married, so at least we could play together for the last time :')

>>5
yes, i know that what i can do now is just accept it
i always pray for his happiness, and now he will be married and live happily with his soulmate

>>7
thanks dear, you're really helpful
yes, what you feel is exactly like what i feel, but you're quite strong person to keep loving him even sometime he annoys you, haha (dont slap him please)
"Even if hes gone off to marry someone don't ever forget or try to forget your brother, because he needs someone like you :)"
your quote make me strong, thank dear

>>10
yes he is my brother, but i know it's so selfish to monopolize him, he has his own life too :)

12 Name: munyamunya : 2015-04-02 20:24 ID:gF5jh1NQ [Del]

>>2
yeah, maybe it because we live separately
maybe if we live together and he share his time more with me, i won't feel like this
thanks dear

13 Name: Takuto : 2015-04-02 21:00 ID:N3nfTbXM [Del]

Good you know he has own life so you know what to do right

14 Name: baka_Soda : 2015-04-03 14:06 ID:EynRqaiH [Del]

>>11
Oh, that's nice! I'm happy for you and for your brother!

15 Name: baka_Soda : 2015-04-03 14:08 ID:EynRqaiH [Del]

>>8
Thanks