If you disslile your looks or your personality, this is a thread for you.


On my opinion you should never change your personality because thats who you are.And looks are in the same place as personality. But If you are really discussed about who you are, its your choice to be you or be someone else.
What is your opinion?

Personality changes over time. When I was little, I was shit head, and when I was teen I was troll.

Now, I'm more calm, and level. It took a while to get here, but I'm happy with it.

As for looks, it's all about your individual sense of self. My eye color doesn't make me.. Me. If I get cosmetic surgery to have yellow eyes, that's not going to change who I am. Not to mention if you like the look that much to spend so much money on augmentation, you probably will end up looking closer to how you see yourself. So in a way you could say that if you are truly dedicated to surgeries, then you will me MORE you after they are healed. This would be true from anything to eye color to transgenders, and beyond.

I hate that I do drugs. Just high as fuck. Momma taught me how to be a body in the street.

I just want kill to myself. I miss my kids. Thinking about my grandma. Fuck her. I hate her. So... much pain.

I feel depressed as fuck.

Holding onto to my pain and my mothers pain. What the fuck is wrong with me?

I meant it when you ask yourself that question.

Some years ago I was the kind of person I hate and as soon as I realised it I took the decision of changing myself. Actually I'm totally a different person and I feel more like "me" than before. So I think if you hate yourself only think you have to do is start by changing in the way you feel like without stop being you. But you must do it with no excusses. It's difficult but it really did worked on me. Just give it a try and remember, there are no excusses, you need to face every problem and go ahead because it's not sane to hate yourself. I mean, if you are not in peace with yourself, how are you going to be ok?

I wish I weren't socially awkward.
I wish I were better at handling stress.
I wish I could communicate my thoughts to other people more easily.
I wish I could concentrate better.
I wish I were an extravert. Introversion is actually pretty inconvenient.
I mostly wish I weren't scared of spiders. Seriously it's a real problem.
But, aside from the spiders and communication parts, those aren't really aspects of myself I can change. So, I just try to cover them up. I know that sounds pretty bad and kind of lacking in expected morality, but it's not like I can just say that I can't be expected to at least try and change just because I don't control what personality I'm born with. If you don't like something about yourself, just go ahead and try to change it. It might work and it might not, but trying and failing is still better than using your lack of input as an excuse to not do anything.
Sorry that sounded kinda cynical... This is the communication part I'm working on.

>>6 Here's a short series of articles that may make you feel a little better about your introversion. You'll see that there are a lot more intorverts out there than you think and that extraversion isn't always a good thing:

"Caring for Your Introvert" and beyond