How do I get closer to people (including my friends)? I'm not really sure if that's the correct way to phrase my question... I tend to be more interested in objects or ideas than conversations or interaction with people. They also make me a bit nervous. Any tips for how to pull yourself away from an interest? I find this extremely difficult.
Another question: how do I focus while hearing other voices (actual voices. not in my head)? This includes people talking as well as singing.
Last question: I space out a lot. By this I mean I stare off in a random direction for an undetermined period of time without moving much. I continue thinking normally during this time. I usually return to full consciousness when I notice someone trying to see what I'm looking at (because it's a bit annoying when they ask and I don't have an answer). Any tips for how to stop spacing out so much? Or at least how to show people: "I'm thinking right now. Please don't interrupt."
All thoughts are welcome.

I'm not sure if this is in any way related to the thread subject, but I will ask in any case. I experience more déjà vu than I think is normal. It feels like most of the things I do are things that I have done multiple times before. Routines don't bother me (I like them actually), but I am a bit worried about what this says about my ability to think creatively (which is an aspect of myself that I value a lot). This concern may be completely ridiculous. What are your thoughts?