So I have this really good friend. More like a best friend actually. And we had this huge argument over something really stupid and we both started saying things mean things to each other. We stopped talking after and that and we haven't spoken since. I want make up but I'm not sure what to do. She's seems to really hate me and is adamant not to speak to me. Which is really awkward as we have all our class together and sit behind one another. We have a group of mutual friends that we usually hang out with and it's getting hard for them to decide on who to hang out with. I just want it to end and I just want us to at least speak to each other. Do you guys have any advice.
The best thing to do is to talk to them - if you can :/ If you do manage to talk then discuss why you need to get over this argument. I would recommend trying to not irritate them in anyway. Firstly try and make it neutral and then build on it until you get back to being friends. You could also asks some of your group to help you with finding ways to make up with them. Good luck! :)
you could bring or make gifts for everyone. if you're all a group then it wouldn't be that strange for you to give something to her too. then at least she knows you want to make up. the same would work if you suggested meeting up during the weekend or something. just approach it casually.
i don't know what kind of person your friend is, and that affects a lot of things. but i have two friends today that i consider my two best friends, and at different points i got into a huge fight with both of them. and so for a long time (one of them it was about 6 months, the other about 1-2) we didn't talk. we took time to develop as individuals, and when we did talk again, we were able to talk about what we had fought about in a more mature light. both times. idk if this helps, but i thought i'd share.
You're a girl :/ Just come to her and tell her to forgive you and forget everything you said in rage mode. It's typical among girls, that's why I hang out with guys more, or with girls that don't get upset because of every little thing. And don't expect her to come to you first, I doubt it will happen. Or if that girl said really mean things to you that she never said during your friendship, you better leave her be and find another good friend, it's not that hard
