So there's this guy who has repeatedly confessing to me and I've rejected it each time. But he hasn't stopped. Um not sure what to do. I'm not very assertive, I mean I cant even tease another person without feeling really bad and apologising. I really dislike having to reject him again and again but he doesn't give up. What should I do?

You can start by also confessing to him (real or not) :)

Well, you can try to explain to him that you're not interested. I mean, just say something simple like, "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested. I feel uncomfortable when you do this. I hope you can understand." Somebody did that to me once before. If the problem does persist then unfortunately you will have to use a stronger means of telling him.

All men should be killed because they all do not respect the rights of women. I had a similar experience and reading this post is making me feel really triggered, so please don't put your fat-shaming racist posts on this site.

You're gonna have to sack up and make it clear that you are not interested. If he persists and you feel like he understands that you're not down for a relationship, then reevaluate your friendship/whatever with this guy.

I think that he was really optimistic that his persistence will bear fruit. Perhaps he saw something in you that somehow persuade him in not giving you up?

So I guess I have to subscribe to Hoshi that aside from telling him that you're really not into him, you should also tell him that his repeated presence made you really uncomfortable. I think you could also ask help from friends just to be your support group, whenever you will tell him these so that he can feel that you're indeed uncomfortable that you have to be accompanied with friends just to talk to him. Possibly, your friends might also add an extra persuasion for the guy to stop bothering you. And also, your friends will be witnesses in case the guy will do something shitty if he cannot take your rejection properly. Although let's not hope that such worst case scenario will ever take place.

Nonetheless, ignore him whenever you can, like if you see him along the corridor, traverse on different path. And always be with friends.

Did he say " I'll BE BACK"?? :)

Well, from their (men) perspective, as long as you still single there is a chance. He might hoping that his persistence will reduce the distance between you two and eventually you will say yes. It might be because you reject him in a way that less hurt as you can, so he think you don't have a feeling for him but you didn't hate him. Well, you don't had to resort to give a mean rejection next time he confess again, I think the least you can do is to avoid him as much as you can, and don't give him a chance to spend a time with you, alone or together with your friend, and try not be so cautious of him so much, it is the same as spending your precious time for thinking of him you know. To make it short, try to not thinking too much of it.

I can't wait for the rape thread!

>>9 Atta boy! Thank ya kindly~