Hey guys I just wanna know if I'm the only one who feels this way.

Recently I noticed something that I myself find strange. Usually during vacations me and my friends would go and hang out (like most people do) the thing is when I spent too much time (A day or 2 straight) with one person I tend to push them away even to the point where I just stay at home and keep myself in my room. Then after a day or two I would feel super lonely and would wanna go out again. Because my friends and I are in different colleges we have difficulty meeting. So everything needs to be planned a day before for us to hangout. If any of my friends accidentally rubbed me the wrong way when we plan I would lose interest and lock myself in again. It doesn't matter who I hang out with I get the same feeling every time.

Any one have any ideas or opinion to help me with my problem?

Thanks for reading anyway

You may be extremely sensitive and an introvert. Google it!

>>2 Do you have any advise how to stop being so sensitive? I looked around the web and their ways of coping with being sensitive doesn't really work in my favour...

There isn't a real way to stop being sensitive. But you have already taken the first step to helping yourself: realizing that you're sensitive. I sometimes have the same problem. The thing I've found that helps is understanding that it's not necessarily your friends fault for your irritation. Once you do that, it can be easier (at least for me) to get over it. Let me know if this helps! :)

I find myself in those situations as well. Although I don't do it often, I would talk to someone about some mundane topic and it would miraculously lift my spirits up. Or perhaps you'd like us to lend a listening ear?

>>3 You are aware that this is something that you would like to change, and that's the first step. I think this is something that you need to think about and realize yourself. Picture the you that you would like to become and challenge yourself to be that person. Good luck m9.

I have felt that way about a lot of things, but what worked for me was just to keep throwing myself into those situations again and again and again until I fnd a way to make it works. It is totally uncomfortable but it works for me!

I always feel this way, I want everyone to never notice me and I just want to be alone. At the same time, I envy people that hang out on the weekend, go to Starbucks, study together, and have pool parties. I just wish I could do all this stuff but I will probably never get to. I do enjoy being left alone in my room watching anime and doing things on my own, but I would rather be hanging out with friends. When I do homework, I sometimes cry because I think of all the people who are hanging out with one another studying and having a great time. I've spent most of my life alone so I've gotten used to it, but I just want someone to give me a hug and say it's going to be ok. Even if it's a complete stranger I wouldn't care, I just want someone to notice me. Maybe that's how you feel, I know how you feel. I wish I could help.
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Thanks guys for all the advice you hv given me. I really appreciate it and will take them into concideration :) Now i think will do what >>7 said and hope it will work for me too. >>8 yeah thats pretty much I how I feel mostly I dunno whether or not its a good thing that someone also feels this way but I'm grateful if you like we can try and get through this together!

You're not alone haha. I am in a similar situation. But i guess it's just our personalities and there isnt anything wrong with feeling like this. Maybe you could talk to a close friend and see how that goes? Or just force yourself to go for those outings / even organize one yourself! If that doesnt work then maybe you just need some alone time. it will pass. I was like that and still am but that's ok because being alone may not necessarily be bad. it could be just that we're more independent or smth. Haha. Hope i helped somehow. Cheer up!

Me, too. I don't hate to hang out with friends but I feel calm when I'm alone. When I'm alone, I can think calmly or what should I do or think back what have I done, etc. When I try to socialize, I confuse, what should I say, what should I do, or what is my reaction bout their comment/joke