My Friends and I joining same extracuricullar in school, because we have same hobby. But recently I think they've been distancing me with themselves because they're too busy with their new friends (well, my friends are female and most of their new friends are male). They even won't share thoughts with me anymore, because they think I'm too stupid to understand their likes. Any idea what should I do? I'm pretty alone here, in daily class too..
2 Name: YEN !0/9MNPGhcM : 2015-03-01 08:55 ID:wr+tzxMd [Del]
I'm not sure if this going to help but maybe you should try evaluating the situation to make sure that you're not just overthinking things. Maybe you can try talking to them and asking them what's wrong. Friends don't just leave without a reason, you are not alone. Good Luck
Well, I'm guessing that your friends are probably attracted to their new friends. In which case, that's perfectly normal. It happens, especially in the teenage years. And if you're left out, it can really suck. My advice there would be to make new friends of your own.
If they TOLD YOU that you were too stupid to understand them, then my advice would be to stand up for yourself. Don't let anyone treat you like that.
Either way, the best idea would be to talk to them. Tell them you miss them. Tell them you want to hang out more. Go out of your way to try and make time for them. Meet up for lunch. Anything you can think of. It might just be that everyone has gotten so busy that they're just letting things slip through the cracks.
I agree with Kuronue. There is only one way to get to them and this is: talking.
But yet. If they will really leave you behind you shouldn't cry over it and just try to overlive it by finding new friends. (but I don't believe they really abandoned you) So no worries and good luck~
>>>2 and >>>3 thank you very much for you advices. I've already talked to them, so it lifted my burden a little, and I just knew my friend feel the same way. Thank you very much ^^.
