i don't know what to do i'm 18 and i think i might be in love with a 13 yr old. don't get me wrong i'm not some pedo weirdo but she is one of the most beautifully intelligent people I've ever met and in a difficult time in my life she helped keep me sane. she's the kind of person who reads things like mobydick just for the challenge i love her but because of her age i feel like i would be taking advantage of her if i confessed my feelings what do i do? am i just crazy?

i dont think u are crazy M8. I had the same stuff when i was 19 and i feel in love for 14 years old girl. What i did i did conffes my feelings for her. Well i knew that was craizy. Then she said she likes me too. But we still were a friends. Cuz that was so fukt up. (sry for bad english.) i hope that helped atleast a little...

are you lolicon go far away from that girl

ignore >>3 its okay ^^ i was in love with a 21 year old xD just tell her how u feel... maybe she is a liberal? anyways its nothing to be ashamed about ^^

If you really love her, be sensible and behave in a responsible way. Stay friends with her and wait for her to grow up. She's still very young, developing her personality and finding out who she wants to be. And at 18, you're also still in a period where a lot of changes might occur. Take some time to let your emotions settle. If you still feel the same love for her after several months, you can still decide what to do. If you don't, you'll have saved yourself from possibly ruining your friendship.

Maybe you could even confess when she's a little older (15+), but leave things as they are for the moment. If you act on your feelings, now, she might feel pressured because you're her friend and probably an adult in her eyes. You wouldn't want to make uncomfortable if she doesn't feel the same. Plus, the age gap won't matter as much when she's older, and once she's out of school, nobody will care for your age difference of 5 years anymore.

I agree with >>5.

if you love her then how is it takeing advantage of her? humans never do anything that makes sense keep in mind everything is limited from your time on this earth to the time you have with her dont spend it as a shadow why should age matter? there are people who get married at ten its only weird here because a bunch of pricks cant understand what love actually is im 19 years old and im with a 14 year old because i love her i dont care about her age its the way she speaks the way she does things and the way she speaks that drew me in if you are sure go for it dont let a couple of dumb shits who cant tie there own damn shoes judge you for what you think and feel if she feels the same about you then why cant it be? go for it just be careful people are stupid and controlling if you wanna talk email me its thebigcheese88@yahoo.com il always support it

Im 17. Almost 18. A few months ago, I liked this 13 year old. I new if we ever had a chance, it would barely be a chance at all. Thing is, I told her that I liked her, but that we couldn't be together. Not to long later I started dating a girl closer to my age, she makes me happy. Im still friends with the younger girl but I see her as more of a sister now.
if youre willing to wait until she's 18. Then thats devotion. Thats love. So if you cant wait that long, just be her friend.

I just want to tell you that you have nothing to be ashamed of,its love for another person thats nothing to be ashamed of. You should just accept your feelings. I think that you should just confess to her and tell her how you feel. Maybe you both will not actually be able to have a relationship, but its better if she knows and you have it off your chest. Plus who knows? maybe she feels the same way about you.

You're definitely not crazy. Although I thought that you just fell in love at the wrong time. Perhaps you could tell her about your feelings. If it's reciprocated, then its good though I guess you have to tell her that right now is not the best time to pursue love because it'll be complicated since she's a minor and the relationship will definitely not mature enough to survive. And so I think you could tell her that you'll wait until she also reach the apt age then perhaps you could both assess each others feelings then if you still both love each other then there's enough reason to go on with it.

But if she only think of you as a mere friend then I think it's also a good thing because now you'll have more reason to not pursue you're love for her becauses it'll eventually led to a vain hope.

Well, that's just my thought. No matter what you choose I wish you best of luck. And be happy with whatever result fate will give you. ^_^

Hello

Here's a quote i think applies to your situation. "I'm 10 and you're 15... That seems like a big gap. But in 20 years, I'll be 30 and you'll be 35. That doesn't seem like such a big difference, does it?"

>>11 hi

Honestly I had that problem before. Just get to know the person on a friendship level and see where it goes. Dont force anything, just keep an open mind. <3

Number 1 don't do it!
Number 2 Wait five years!
Please don't forget!
It's vital to your health, happiness,career and social life.

It's also against the law and immoral.

wait five years if she really means that much to you, but don't do anything you'll regret later.

Age shouldn't matter in relationships. And nothing is wrong with your age gap. But you should probably find out how this girl feels about you. If you really love her, you should be willing to wait until she is older, more experienced and mature in life. Society automatically jumps to the conclusion that you will take advantage of this girl or that you only like her because she's younger or some other BS like that. Age really shouldn't matter. I'm not telling you to wait because it's bad for you to like someone five years younger than you, because it's not bad. But you should wait and let her grow up a bit. Kids her age don't understand what love is really like, and I could probably say the same for you. You've already been through all those crushes, likes, loves, etc. But she is still young and most likely hasn't. Let her experience that. THat will let her know if she is ready for relationships later on in life. I think you should let her know how you feel and assure her that you respect her boundaries, limits, and comforts, on relationships. By relationships I mean, any kind, including friendships. Tell her that you would be willing to wait for her. Which you should be if you really love her. BUt make sure that this is something that you're sure about and that you won't regret waiting for this girl later.

yeah like if you wait for 5 years she will be 18 and you will be only 23 thats not that much of a huge age difference there are plenty of adults that end up dating people that are 5 years or older than them.