Its hard when at first you like a girl and think she's cute. Then you date her and have sex. She gets so attached and now its like I totally lost feelings for her. Like her whole world revolves around me and its kinda weird... I sound like and asshole but she just got more and more unattractive due to being so.. attached... and to say "I love you" after I've only known you for like 2 months? She kinda rushed things and accused me of being her boyfriend when all we were doing is just hanging out and sex, but that's just seeing each other. Then she tries so hard to introduce me to her parents and I'm like, "I've only known you for 2 months lol" kinda sorry not sorry I think I made the right decision to go my separate way and avoid you..

>>1 ...

"Then you date her and have sex. She gets so attached and now its like I totally lost feelings for her."

"She kinda rushed things and accused me of being her boyfriend when all we were doing is just hanging out and sex, but that's just seeing each other."

"...kinda sorry not sorry I think I made the right decision to go my separate way and avoid you.."


Listen... Sex is a very intimate thing for most women. It induces romantic feelings for the other whether we want them there, or not...
She's not entirely to blame. Yeah, saying she loves you after only two months is awkward and says she's inexperienced. But you deciding to "hang out" while having sex with someone who you've only just met, is pretty weird too. A one night stand, sure. But I mean, did you actually tell her that you wanted her for a sex friend? The very first time she started acting like a girlfriend, did you remember to draw the line immediately and let her know you weren't for that?
Because if you didn't, that's your fault that she calls you "boyfriend" when you're in this current mindset.

Honestly, so that she will learn her lesson, I wish you would text her everything you said here.
Frankly, she fell for an asshole. She needs to know that she was moving too fast and that she needs to choose her future partners wisely.

You are right. I just think also she is "inexperienced" and I kinda did when I told her that I'm not really looking to be in a relationship. i just forgot to add that as well but yeah i guess im part to blame as well

I see. Yeahhh... Saying that is actually kind of vague. For example, when women say that, it tends to mean that we're looking for friends and nothing more...
So once you guys started kissing and screwing... One would assume you've stepped across that "nothing more" line, and have begun a relationship status... Not a "sex friends" status... I'm almost too hesitant to ask how old this girl is.

Shes a sophomore dood

>>6 high school or college.

highschool fam

>>8 Well... Yeah.... One can assume that a 14-15 year old is inexperienced. And is not mature enough to be and/or comprehend "sex friends"...
Now. Tell me that you are also in high school and not 18 or older..l

>>9 Cuz if you aren't, breaking up with her badly can potentially come back to bite you. I don't know why I was assuming you boy were young adults.

well dude...you had sex with her of course she is going to be attached to you and say that she loves you and then you blame her for that? seriously you are kind of being an asshole.

and your even calling it a relationship yet you only want sex.-.- wow.

>>1 1 Wait wait, read the prev comments, I think this has been settled. Almost. Still wanting to know your age >>1.

>>13 yes i have already read the past comments i just still think that he was being stupid and shouldve told her that he is not looking for a relationship not just sleep with her and then break her heart and tell her the next day or after 2 months. -.-

Her fault for misunderstanding your relationship. She should have considered what you were looking for.

>Sex is a very intimate thing for most women
Check your pussy privilege, my dude.

>>17 Huh?

What, are you mad that I didn't say for most women and men? I wouldn't know, I don't have a dick, and I don't speak with guys about sex.

>>16 He didn't make it clear though.

>>19 He might not have made it completely clear to her, but that doesn't mean that he's in the wrong. She should have stepped back and considered why he isn't reciprocating similar feelings.

I think >>17 is taking the mickey out of you, ever heard anyone say "check your privilege"

>>20"She should have stepped back and considered why he isn't reciprocating similar feelings."...That's when the age factor comes in. Rarely anyone does that at 14 or 15. Just like rarely anyone wants a "sex friend" at age 14 or 15(which is why I suspect OP is older than her by a few years). Not sure if you read previous comments, but I'm more or less inclined to say it was both of their faults. I read what you considered your "ideal", so you side more towards OP, while I side more towards the girl. Society has us glorifying "love" at a pretty early age. I too was too eager with my first boyfriend, and others were as well. Two things need to happen: Either 1) parents need to give girls "the talk" on the pressures of unrealistic romances and also just warn them that "some boys are only about that thing".
2) We have to learn the hard way, like OP's gf is about to learn. But that has varying results. For some girls like my friend, it kind of had them disbelieve in love, and now they only care for sex when they want it. Then for ones like my other friend, they halt in dating all together, and choose with a very specific list, unwilling to experiment. It's been 5 years since their last boyfriend, and they're still not really ready to date. I'm not even sure if she's waiting for the right moment or just too scared to date...

>> I think >>17 is taking the mickey out of you, ever heard anyone say "check your privilege"

Was he? I've only heard MRAs say that.

>>21 I don't think I have anything else to really add, it sucks that their relationship didn't work out. But hey! I guess you learn from these experiences especially when you're on the receiving end. Btw I was kidding saying that I wanted a 'detached fuckbuddy' top kek

>>22 It's a term that the 'disenfranchised' use on Twitter and other social networking sites to shut down people who disagree with them, I see it dropped seriously every now and again.