Hello i am new here i heard this site from a friend of mine so here is my problem a few years ago a met a man and we became best friends but after time he fell in love with me but i had a boyfriend and we were dating for a few years and i didnt want to break up with him so i told the man that he will find another woman that will love him and i saw in his eyes that he was sad.I think he is really strange he doesn't like people much he doesn't have many friends and he likes to be alone instead with friends be smokes a lot and he doesn't care much about anything he acts cold to people but he is warm towards me and when i told him that i couldn't be with him a week after that he just vanished nobody knew where he was and then after a year i met him by accident and we started to go see each other for a time and i noticed that he was different from before and i like him but he went abroad for a couple of months and i am with my old boyfriend but he doesn't care for me as much as before and we see each other probably once at every two weeks and i don't know what to do.The man cares for me every time i have a problem he is there to help me but he is a little stranje like i said.
I will be happy if you could he help me and i am sorry for my english!

ok so basically what he is trying t do is forget about his feelings for you. But he still cares for you thats for sure. I think you should talk this out with him. You should ask him what was wrong and how you can help him. Sorry im not so much of a expert in these things but I guess that's what I would do

No one can tell you what to do or how to feel, but maybe he was or still is struggling so I agree with Miyuki! Talk to him, or just simply ask if he is doing okay or maybe if something happened. It's just out of concern for a friend that way if you're worried. Fighting!

Thank you for the help i will do that.