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1 Name: Anonymous : 2015-02-11 03:32 ID:nSrFML1H [Del]

I know this will probably sound stupid and sound like I'm whining but lately I've been so bored. And not just bored as in I don't have anything to do but bored as in my life isn't getting any more interesting and doesn't look like it's going to any time soon. I'm only 15, but I've already been depressed. I tried talking to my 'friends' about it, but they just shouted me down and didn't offer much help at all. They don't understand and I don't think I'm able to make them understand. Can anyone give me any advice? Or at least assure me that it will get better at some point? I don't know how much longer I can handle this. Nothing ever changes. I know I shouldn't really be complaining; my family is happy, my grades are better than most, I should be happy. But it's just the same old life every day. I don't feel like I have any real friends. I'm not close to anyone. Can someone give me any advice?

2 Name: JackDenkin : 2015-02-11 06:28 ID:TtZB26QH [Del]

Then go out, and make the change yourself. Life is mumdane once you get use to it, but if your willing to change it, then do it, discover more, try something, act a bit different, find a reachable yet far goal. Your life is your path, only you can make it better, sure you can wait for the events, but if you do, can particite in that event?

3 Name: Reneo : 2015-02-11 06:33 ID:3jh5mCfj [Del]

Not dissing on both of you but sometimes there are just some things you aren't allowed to do because of the rules of society. Life is mundane because believe it or not, you don't have to worry about saving your skin. Once your life in on the line, I'm sure your life would be exciting and you wouldn't need people all the time. Most people are who are happy have experience a huge fucking hurdle in their life, your hurdle might be try finding some new friends who fucking cares about you. =)

4 Name: Reikki : 2015-02-11 06:55 ID:nSrFML1H [Del]

I do want to go out and do things. And I try to. But it's hard. You know what high school is like trying to make new friends, and mine is pretty shit actually. But I am going to try and change. I suppose I'm just a bit of a coward. Sometimes I just wish for a whole new start but I'm too much of a coward to actually try and change. And I'm sure my friends do care about me it's just that they won't let us get close. But thank you for the advice both of you @JackDenkin @Reneo

5 Name: Reneo : 2015-02-11 15:28 ID:FwLD3AU0 [Del]

No problem! I don't think you're a coward since you recognize what you need to do and what you want to do. Believe me, alot of people don't know what the hell they want nowadays (so indecive XD). There's always time to start anew, it's not too late! Always initiate to get closer with your friends even if it's discouraging, (happened to me alot but in that way I found out who would stick around and who wouldn't). But that's what worked in my life and it may not work on yours but you can give it a shot.Thank for posting here! =)

6 Name: Reikki : 2015-02-11 18:35 ID:9OfbunTv [Del]

@Reneo Thank you so much for your advice. I've decided to stop keeping these feelings to myself. I am going to try and change and become the kind of person I really want to be. I'm going to try to sort things out with my friends and also make new friends as well. Thank you for all your help :)

7 Name: JackDenkin : 2015-02-11 19:26 ID:IYPS4pAV [Del]

Hip hip hooray! May your path be filled with opportunities, and a word of advice (kinda) Never get high hopes over anything, it may lead to dissappoints and always have bigger than life (big picture) goal.
"You move more fully, if you have a goal to reach." ~ Sage Murou

8 Name: Reikki : 2015-02-12 12:02 ID:9OfbunTv [Del]

@JackDenkin Thankyou very much! And I've already learned that the hard way, but thanks for your words of wisdom my friend!

9 Name: ARYA : 2015-02-12 14:46 ID:nPbd8coj [Del]

You should listen to the song "The Nights" by Aviici. Life can get really boring sometimes, so you just have to just do somthing exiting, go rock climbing with your pals, travel a bit, surf at the beach, try foods you have never tried before. Rice just tastes plain and dry but if you add soy sause and veggies it can taste amazingly good. So just go out and do somthing instead of sitting in your house all day working.