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A Friend (6)

1 Name: Setton : 2015-02-05 09:14 ID:kI8zT6Kv [Del]

It's just that, I have a friend, well, I don't know if we're friends. I don't also know if I treat her like a friend but I know that we're always together. And that's the reason why people thought that we're best friends (but we both deny it).

Then, this day came. We had a word fight. Fight that started because of my short-temperateness. We didn't talk to each other. I wonder how people around us thought that time.We almost looked like strangers to each others. We have the same circle of friends, we're four, that's why our other friend was with her, and the other one was with me.

Then, in just one blink of an eye, we're okay again! We're talking to each other again like nothing had happened. We talked like how we used to do.

But, something in my heart is unsure. I'm talking to her like how I used to do, but I'm thinking why was she like that? We didn't even say sorry to each other (well, I don't even want to say it but if she say it first, I'll say it). We didn't even talked about it. It's just like, boom! We're okay now.

I don't know why I posted it in here. I just wanted it to let go. I just feel tranquil whenever I'm in here, Dollars. Knowing that only anime makes myself better. I think that's why I feel very sure in here.

2 Name: Setton : 2015-02-05 09:16 ID:kI8zT6Kv [Del]

So, anyone here who have problems with friend/s? Why not share it? Feel free. ^^

3 Name: Taichi : 2015-02-05 13:29 ID:O/rA2KlN [Del]

You should have an honest talk with your friend about that situation. There is no need for an apology between close friends you should just realise each other standpoints at that time.
Oshino Meme (Bakemonogatari) : "There is no right or wrong on this world. There are only circumstances."
Try to realise each other circumstances than you will both feel like the situation is resolved.

Just my 2 cents,

Taichi

4 Name: ksai !qrEKylLXvY : 2015-02-05 14:53 ID:R6i5jOjj [Del]

My friends were like this a few months ago. They had a fight about a year ago and started ignoring each other. They stayed like that for almost a year, I thought they would never get back together but then one day they just became friends again out of the blue.
I think they forgot why they were mad in the first place and decided it was time to become friends again. I was a little unsure about it too when it happened but now it's like the fight never happened in the first place.
I agree with Taichi though, if you have doubts or concerns you should talk to them about it.

5 Name: Kokkuri-san : 2015-02-06 03:35 ID:YMS3G6E4 [Del]

People just kinda move on y'know~ ^^

What usually goes on inside both parties is that they don't feel comfortable with a flat out apology and I'll be honest, it makes the situation more awkward afterwards, like, you'd be more strangers than you ever were to each other before.

SO following the flow and it's all good. You guys can talk about that fight when you think you've grown out of it, like your pyjamas!

6 Name: Setton : 2015-02-06 04:00 ID:JYTF62i2 [Del]

Thank you guys!

>>3 I just realize that! We're different after all. We have different view in life and I think that's why we fought. I just can't accept her reasons and all. Then, I think being with her means I need to accept everything about her and also she need to do the same! ^^

>>4 I'm glad we didn't go that far. It was just in one day. We talked when we had an activity then I finished it first. When she had difficulty finishing the activity, she asked me (but I could still see her uneasiness). I don't want to ignore her that's why I helped her. Hahaha, then we're okay. But my mind kept asking, "Am I the only one who was worried about what had happened?"

>>5 Yes! I'll just talk to her when time goes on. And I think I'll just move on ^^