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Help...? (8)

1 Name: Jessie : 2015-02-04 04:13 ID:qoqVwcHT [Del]

Guys I have been dating with my boyfriend for 2 months and I know the relationship is new;but we love each other.
Anyway he said I was the perfect girl, the girl of his dreams, his first love, the love of his life. And that he never said I LOVE you to anyone else.
that makes me hapoy but... today I was on his facebook and pas reading his old conversation with his ex girlfriend and he used the same things to say to her. And that made me feel betrayed. I cried. He lied to me.
He used the exact same words, the as soon as I have money I will visit you no one can stop it etc etc. All the same.
is he using me?
but our friend says he is serious with me with his actions and how he behaves etc. He says he only wanted his ex for her body but to me he only loves me. Thats believable because he always called her SEXY. Also our friend also says that he was her fanboy just a crush but that he loves me a lot. He also said that his mother hated every girl he dated but she only likes me and his family likes me too...

Im sure and I trust him a lot. But still; I feel bad. And since he is my wallpaper whenever I see that smile on the picture I start thinking "oh. He smiled like this to the other -sexy- girl"

And well the thing that hurts me is... we look alike with the girl. Body shape height weight face nearly everything...

I know how he adresses me is different and that I am special from the way he looks at me and the way he looked at the girl... but he also called the other girl special and unique and his dream girl and everything he said to me...
but whenever I see him now I feel like crying, help me please.

2 Name: BY5T4ND3R : 2015-02-04 04:49 ID:GRJgXcm9 [Del]

I am not quite good at things about relationships and stuff like that, but with what you have seen on facebook and how he talks to you it sure sounds like he's using you. I'm not telling you that he is but just don't trust him blindly. Do you know if he left is ex or if his ex left him?
I'm only asking that because if he left her then he had you as a reason to leave her. but if she left him you might be a substitute :/
Well hope for the best and prepare for the worst I wish you the best of luck. ^^

3 Name: Miruku : 2015-02-04 06:20 ID:VqWCMqNA [Del]

You should bring this up with him if you feel that way. The main within a relationship is trust if you don't trust is actions I don't know what to say. Remember actions speak louder than words. If he is lying and you can tell don't let him get away with it.

4 Name: Haiiro : 2015-02-04 08:06 ID:2rkW1AWg [Del]

just give up of him the guy just see girl as his pleasure is the worst and don't trust to guy who have lied to you about love

5 Name: JOKER : 2015-02-04 23:35 ID:N9qA4MXO [Del]

I really curious about his ex...
Can you give the picture....just asking...
If you want.....can watch the movie Match Point....it quite similar to your situation....

6 Name: Jessie : 2015-02-05 02:57 ID:qoqVwcHT [Del]

I told him and yeah he admitted that he said those words. But he said that he only loves me.
he never asked something physical anyway. The way he hugs me and kisses me just tells it all... i have no idea how to explain but im really precious to him

The girl left him. But with the conversation I could see that he didnt try hard for her to stay. He wrote sweet stuff the girl said no. And he was like oh ok bye.
from the really old conversations he just didnt love her that much.
our friend says i am his first love and he said it to my face. He says he can give anything for me. Even his life.
Then he hugged me and said he really loved me...
thanks guys, talking to him was a great idea.
>>5 haha sorry i cant ^^'

7 Name: JOKER : 2015-02-07 20:44 ID:W0Qviz0H [Del]

Good to hear.

8 Name: Painsworth : 2015-02-08 07:52 ID:1I8y2YBc [Del]

Sounds to me like your boyfriend just lacks imagination since he has to use the same lines.