Sorry I pressed enter too early.. heh... anyways my crush Brit is, depressed. she talks to me A LOT about how she hates herself and that she needs help but she doesn't know what to do about it so thats where I need advice. Usually I say ''Oh.. okay'' and I don't like that. I want to comfort her and tell her that I like her but I never did that to anyone. and Im a guy so... how do I do this?? Btw what I meant by her scaring me is because I'm scared to lose her and I worry about her all the time. We only talk at school too.
Try and take her mind away from her depression. Cheer her up, make jokes, take her somewhere. Anything that will make her smile and give her a reason to wake up everyday. Depression is something you overcome alone but she needs reasons to keep trying. Sometimes just let here know your there for her. I had depression for a long time. One I moved schools and I met theses amazing people and they became make best friends. They help me laugh everyday, do the stupidest just to make me smile, go an adventure everyday. Everyday was filled with fun and was unique. It gave me a reason to wake up in the morning. I started seeing the good things about myself through them because they had accepted me. All of me even the parts I hated about myself.
Motivate her to keep trying when things are hard. Just act cheery and get her to smile at you, and smile at herself too. What Teuy said is also true, so there's also that ^^
Thanks. I plan to take her out this weekend, but I don't know where yet.. Either to the movies or hang out. Anything to get her away from home for awhile :P I'll try my best to help her out.
>>10 from the anime Durarara.......-_-' oie anyways if they scare you then they ain't for you bud. move on.... if u ever have any doubt about anything over a girl u like then your better off forgetting about being with her and just go for someone else
Me personally it's been over 2 years, so no i wouldn't remember the characters names, except maybe shizuo or izaya. and thats only bc every1 here never shuts up about them.
>>2 Just be honest with her. Tell her how you feel. Try hanging out outside of school. Just be a good friend, but ultimately, this is her own problem to deal with.
She's avoiding me. I sent her messages, and tried to talk to her today in school. She keeps walking away... She didn't want to come in to class too. I tried waiting up for her after school but I didn't see her around. On Friday everything was fine, thats when I asked her if she would like to hang out and she said yes, but her mom said she was busy.
