>>1 [shrugs] I'm in the same boat.
When I was a kid, my childhood home had a severe spider problem. I
wish those motherf-kers were just daddy long legs. I lived in Georgia, and besides Atlanta, the place is mainly just acres of forestry. I remember coming home to spiders, waking up to spiders. Them being at the window, over the door...
We had a second floor basement that we mainly used for storage and when I went down there once, there was a Huge black spider that my dad tried to kill, but it skittered away amongst the boxes before he could.
Damn sure never went to that room again.
There was also a time when I came home and there was a large. hairy.
orange spider on the wall to the downstairs level.
Sorry for bringing all that up, but what I'm trying to say is 1) You are most CERTAINLY. NOT. ALONE.
And 2) ...Personally, everyone has a fear, and I don't think there's anything wrong with you or not going out of your way to expunge.
Exposure is a key factor though; I'm also afraid of cockroaches (we have big ones in G.A.... At least they don't 'hiss' or jump. *shivers*), and the only way I got over that was while living in China we were in a roach infested apt complex motherf-ckers daily.