>>1 you explain it well ,you don't have a bad english at least in writting,about your friend... how can i say it,people can be changed but not because they want,for them to change they must have a reason,nobodys changes just to pleases the others.people change because of a event, something important.i am saying this because she doesn't look like she cares about something,if she is that way you can't do nothing,let her be that way she want,just because she is not the person people want her to be doesn't mean she should change.life is short do what you want,never be in a cage just because of the others