So recently on december 28, my bf of three months broke up with me because He said he really wanted to get laid and go around screwing people. He said he didn't want to do that while he was with me so he said he still Loved me and would want to come back to me after his sexual escapades. Anyways, It's been nine days, and I discovered from a friend that he jumped into a new relationship with my friend April who I introduced to him earlier on. I'm devastated that he lied to me just so he could date her. He thinks I don't know that they're together, and I want to make him pay. What he did was cruel, and what april did was cruel. Both knew I loved him very much, and they decided to hurt me anyways. I was always there for april when she was sad or anything, sane with my bf, I don't understand why this would happen.
He even texted me today saying
"hey"
(Hours later)
"Why are you ignoring me huh?"

Thoughts?
How can I get revenge?
Predictions of the future of the relationship?

LOL This is actually crazy stuff.

I don't have a really good plan except you doing the same thing to him. If you've got a guy on your side, then tell him to play an act with you and pretend to be a boyfriend in front of your previous one. If this sounds like too much for sweet revenge, then talk to April. Not harshly, but satirically sweet about your bf. the topic? That'll be upto you. Something that'll either sting or make her feel guilty. Girls are smart when it comes to revenge....

Hey Emily. Serious talk. But you don't need to revenge. The reason you feel that way because you are still in love with him and it is your defense mechanism for being bitter and wanting to revenge. But if you revenge, and do what Guardian for you suggest, that boy might fall in love with you, and it will be more complicated than ever. And besides its just tells that you are still obsessed with your ex-bf. the thing is the best resolution for that is confront your ex-boyfriend. don't ignore him. Tell him it's all over for you two. you can't be in a relationship with that kind of scenario- with you only giving yourself to him. END IT. Despite it will cause pain to you. tell him that for a while you don't wanna see him. It's the best for you guys. You need to create big space for you guys to forget him and try to stop loving him. Because his a douche bag. that's all I can say.

trust me I've been in that situation.

I agree with Aurum. Revenge will only cause another revenge. Revenge is a never ending cycle. Sure you will feel good if you got your revenge but then what? You should just let him be. Stop thinking about how you can revenge at the guy because the more you think of that, it's the same as thinking of him. Just make him regret that he did that to you by making yourself a better person.

I don't understand how you could love someone so early in the relationship. Considering that you've been together for only three months. How old are you? Love is a complicated emotion. You don't really love him. You're just adore him so much and like having him in your life. It's all part of the charm. These feelings will leave you and come back. Eventually you'll find real love. But I don't think you'll be getting it with him. Especially now that you're seeking revenge. You don't love him at all. If you did, you would confront him and tell him what's bothering you and why. THen you would try to resolve things. By resolve I mean you'd either leave him for good, or get back together. But you don't love him.

He made it pretty clear that he really wanted sex. If he loved you enough, he would respect that you're not ready and not break up with you to go get laid with other girls. That was selfish on his part. Love is about the other person, not yourself. So considering how both of you are treating this situation, you don't really love him, and he doesn't really love you. See how 'love' works now?

And you shouldn't let jealousy over this girl get to you. She's not important to you whatsoever. Forget about her. It's sad when anyone pushes you to the point of wanting revenge. Revenge is just plain stupid. There's no point to it. It will only hurt you and if it doesn't well karma is a b*%!h. Open your eyes and see that this was just a fling. Relationships are hard to get over, especially when you put your all into it. Forget about them and be the stronger person. Move on. Life goes on, and it's not going to wait for anyone. Don't waste your time sulking over someone who isn't worth it. Go find someone who really loves you and love them back. But take your time. Life doesn't wait, but love can.

Guilt, the true form of revenge any girl, with a large side dish of drama and confronting those 2.

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