So if I went to school and the nurse (or any other staff member) saw my self harm wounds, will they tell my parents even if I ask for them not to?

And I fear surviving suicide. If I do, would the school know? How long would I be kept in hospital? Would I have to stay somewhere for a few days? Any other information? I'm afraid of surviving.

As far I've heard from other people they would tell. they have to be quiet as long as they don't have information including harming yourself or anything that is endangering your health

I can't answer the other question though sorry.

Self harm. Well it depends. They might be bound by confidentiality clauses. But if you make them believe that your parents already know and you are over it might pass un-mentioned. Or maybe it would bring the topic up. I am no good in these cases.

If you attempt suicide the school will know, but the classes will probably not. Depends on if they wiff the rumor. You would probably be held in the hospital for a day or 2. Maybe a week or a month depending on how you inflicted your wounds... It depends a lot.

Besides why do you want suicide anyway?

Ho and if you do really attempt suicide and do not want to be alive or crippled for the rest of your life... Not sure if its a good thing I am saying, but...

Jumping needs about 4-5 story high to assure death and must be incredibly painful but effective with the head. Any lower is a failed jump or broken ribs and legs if unlucky.

Slashing wrist I say cut vertically if you want the pain and minimal death. Other is horizontal close to the hand. Failure might prevent you from taking a hold on items firmly ever again.

The rope... Well I don't think jumping from a chair or stuff like that will be enough. It might break the neck, but with that position I would anticipate a slow painful choke.

Still I don't know what you are planning, why, or even how you are planning to execute this.

Just remember this make ZERO SENSE. There is always another option even if you need to invent it yourself. Human have always surprised us thus far.

If death is a dream you can't wake up from... It would mean reliving the most atrocious things in a nightmare loop for all eternity. Just remember it doesn't fix anything. Make the choice to die physically. Or kill your pride to live! At least pride can slowly be regained...

REMEBER READ THE WHOLE MESSAGE. THIS IS NOT THE KIND OF DECISION TO BE TAKEN LIGHTLY.

PS: IF YOU DO CHOSE DO IT AFTER A GOOD NIGHT SLEEP AND THINK ABOUT IT FOR 3 MINIMUM HOURS. YOU WILL NOT BE THE ONLY ONE AFFECTED.

Please, I knoiw I sound like any other person out there. telling you to not end your life, it gets better. I've heard it too. And I may not know who you are, Heck I don't even know your fist name. But I just want to say that you're pain, it is temporary. It may seem like it has been there forever, and maybe it's been there since you've been 3 and now you're 30 or something. but pain is temporary and it ends, you quitting your life will last forever. No, I won't force you to live, I'm sure you have been courageous through all this time, and I'm proud of you. As for surviving, I've had a close friend survive after trying... she stayed in pine rest for about a week as an out patient I think. just to let you know, a more unkind word, or the more raw word for pine rest would be a "mental hospital" not with people who have actually lost it, but for people like you, like me, that are having a super hard time. I think the school would know, but they would keep it as private as they can if you survived. I'm sorry that you feel this way, nobody should feel this way when all they really want is to start actually living. May you one day find happiness
Sincerely,
The Actor

Just die already. A person who seeks death should die. Do what you want, stop caring about what others are saying and just do it. Live or die whichever choice you make the only person who will care, is you.

Baan.

Oh darling person. Look around you, there will always be. Someone somewhere who cares about you. Even if you think they don't they do. If you die you surely wont be the only one effected. Suicide can cause loved ones to do the same or blame themselves for the rest of their life. I should know, seeing people you love go through hell is like torture. The pain wont go if you die, you just die in pain. So many lovely people have replied to you even though they don't know you. Who could ask for more support from strangers?
You have my support, please don't give up and reply if you are still alive (just a little worried here).
Mina

What an interesting way to think...I don't really mind about your self harm, I meN everyone get their own hobbies anyway~
But let me ask you this...will self harm make your problem go away? Hurting and cutting your flesh and skin just because of that problem...I know that humans have their own ways to endure the pain, but I find self harming is illogical. Why would you hurt your pretty skin just to endure the pain? In my opinion it's not worth it, you should find another 'positive' activity to do rather than cutting yourself. But then again...it's up to yours truly~

I wouldn't kill yourself, that's too far... I can't force you to stay alive, but seriously, bro... There's so much in life you have yet to experience. The outdoors, national parks and camping adventure! :D That's a big thing I like, you should like it too!

In my opinion, if you're ready to end your life, at least do SOMETHING. Like, go street racing or something. :P Do something fun like that, even if it's illegal, 'cause if you're gonnna die then laws won't affect you at all.

Seriously, though, go do some camping or something! :D Breath the fresh air and think about how much you'll miss if you die! It's not worth it!

Seriously, bro, don't suicide. Don't be that guy... :/ Honestly, just don't.

As someone who's done and thought the same things, I'd like to talk to you. I hope you're still alive. If you are, maybe we can talk. My skype is cainfahren. I won't bug you about things such as "stop harming yourself" or "don't do it", because I know it doesn't help at all.
As I said, I hope you're still alive. Let's talk, if you want.

I know I can't control your decisions. You're the only one who can do that. But just try to think of the people close to you and how they would feel. If you think they would be sad then at least for now you can consider that your reason for living.
At the very least remember this:
If you are able to recover from this depression then just think of how many people you could help. I'm sure there are other people out there who are going through a lot and I know that advice and support is always better coming from someone who truly understands.

As someone who is often undecided, I'll offer one more piece of advice: killing yourself is not something you can undo. It's not something you can recover from. So please just think very carefully about this. And remember that if you decide to live we'll still be here to help you recover.