look im gay and i just had my heart broken and it was my first love and well shes like a drug i cant get enough but i know i shouldn't she says shes straight now but shes always been an in the closet bi and i think her family almost found out so but she was my first kiss to well i went to make a move and then found out she had a bf and has a crush on this guy in one of the classes we have together well every time i see her face i die on the inside a little more im becoming a hallow shell and i have depression problems having barely stopped my self her killing myself or even cutting im hanging my self by a thread barely holding on to my humanity and sanity even though i have little of it

look, i realize ur in pain and all that. but the only advice i can give u is not to be gay. those are more likely to fail than a normal boy girl relationship. trust me. give it a few tries at dating a guy. if that doesn't help then all anyone can do is just try to cheer you up.

I'm having a similar problem. I'm gay too or bi I'm not totally sure. But I've been having a similar problem my boyfriend dumped me because he was ashamed of being gay. It tore me apart on the inside, but it turned out that my boy was going through a lot more than I was and maybe your girl is just trying to figure herself out.

>>2 i would but i was dating guys for awhile but then i dated a girl and it was the longest relationship ive had and then i realized i was gay when i fell for her ive never been i love it was like a chore to try to fall i still try to date guys but i just dont fall and it hurts to try and fool myself

Hey I'm sorry you're having a rough time and I don't know how you feel but its okay to be gay. Don't try to fight it because it will become more stressful. If you fall in love with a girl then there you go, if it's a boy.. who really cares? it's how you feel, so no need to lock how you feel up.

Exactly what the actor said. Being gay is totally fine. I haven't had a problem like that so I can't really know what you're going through in that aspect. But at the end of the day, it doesn't matter if you're gay or bi or transgender or whatever. Now, I do understand what it's like to battle with depression and self-harm. No matter what anyone says, you're the one that needs to make the decision to keep moving forward. Tackle the days head first and don't let anything stop you from living life to the fullest. kind of cliche, but cliches are the best. ^_^