I was embarrassed when thinking about this bad experience but I need someone to be talked to and I think this BBS is the right place to talk and nobody would know who am I in real life.
and sorry about my not so good english.

as you already read the title, yes it's about my experience of being harassed sexualy by random people.
I don't know what's wrong with me. I don't have a sexy body. I'm normal, well a bit chubby though. I never wear sexy clothes, I don't even have courage to wear a hot pants and tank top to go out like the other girls. I usually wear cute but not sexy skirt or dress, trying to be mori girl or lolita. but why do they harras me everywhere?
in my school, by my teacher. he did huged me with lust and whispered me, and then I kicked his ****s.
in a japanese festival, by random visitors. in a crowd they put their hands on my ass when I can't move.
in a bus when I'm going home by random people.
in a cram school, by my teacher.
even at AFA...
and there's a lot more of my experience which make me traumatized enough to go out alone but unfortunately I must go out alone because I have no boy friend nor best friend who can protect me everywhere.

is there any places I can go without getting those sexual harassment thing?
can I just live peacefully?
what should I do?
sometimes I thought that I'm a bitch and can never be a bride anymore because I already touched by men and I'm only 16.

please help me.
what's wrong with me until I must through those bad things?
and thank you for reading and understanding my problem and situation.

Well I don't know about the sexy clothes. This doesn't have anything to do with it in my opinion. Maybe its just the mentality.

Not sure but it is true that some oddities can trigger hatred or make you a more likely victim.

I myself am a magnet punching bag. For a REALLY long time I used to just meet people and they instantly knew I was a punching bag... I wasn't even hurt most of the times! yet that increased the numbers of those whom wanted to try and hit me.

Or maybe its just a dick who is spreading the word about you and people just can't resist testing...

T_T I hope you find how to fix that still...

When someone is getting picked on its rarely random. And if its random it still ends up on the most likely victim because there are simple tendency to it. Maybe try an evil glare? Or stay close to people who you really trust.

I'm a shy person to peoples I just met. it's hard for me to glare. I even can't scream when they harras me because I was scared to death... but I'm sure those damn peoples isn't related and they never know each other.

I thought, many peoples would said it because sexy clothes or my behavior but I'm sure I didn't do anything suspicious. there are a lot of girls who flirting on everyone to get touched, I wonder why not do it to them? why me?

Lmao.

Well as I said earlier it might not be because you flirt, but because you are seen as an easy target. You get scared and hardly react. This is why I am telling you to try to stick around your own crowd since its better. That or gain confidence by doing self defense classes. Still it does have a limit and you are still human.

Someone who just complies to everything or as trouble drawing the line to where the limit that he crossed is are easyer to take advantage of. Its like when your geting hurt by something you need to say it usualy for people to realise. (Althought I do not belive those harassing you will care much, those who you know well might.)

Maybe in worst case scenarios the moment it start try and concentrate on excuses or ways to escape for if you need to.

I really wish I could be there for you, maybe the reason that people harass you is because you look defenseless or like you won't do anything about it, when you go out, make sure to look confident even if you don't feel it, keep your head up and if you see someone who you think is going to try to feel you, glare at them and make sure they know that they you are off limits. To prepare yoursel, watch some tutoriales on basics of escaping from someone. If it's in a very public place and you can't move, raise your voice and tell them directly that you do not want them to do that, it may be embarrassing but they will be more embarrassed. If you ever need anything kik me at yaoi_dealer okay? I hope you have a better week!

First off....you need to change your attitude. I don't mean any offense by this. It is terrifying to be harassed. But if you think you are defenseless and you assume you are just going to be a victim all the time, thats what you are going to be. My suggestion? Self defense classes and maybe some therapy (It heeeelps). Honestly in the >>1 post. You talked about not having a boyfriend or a best friend. But you won't always have someone to protect you. So you need to be able to protect yourself. As for you not being able to be a bride.....If someone really cares about you it won't matter if you have been touched by another man....

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Op just gave me a new copypasta

Anyway if you do decide self denfense might I recomend you Hapkido. It can be great if you have more brains then brawns and its simple. Also its not as binding as Jujitsu or Judo and a lower killing ratio then Muai Thai or Boxing without gloves. Anyway just look some sports up and decide witch one will fit the best with your taste. (But if you are afraid of being grabed before fighting I recomend avoiding sports requiring space like Taekwondo.)

This is truly saddening. I talked about this with my friends. The only thing we could come up with is what everybody here already told you. You must react. What LittleRat, Lyrics of Pandora, and The Actor said are really great advice. You must follow them. Self-defense training should make you bolder so that you won't be scared.

One more thing. You MUST NEVER consider yourself to be spoiled. Some random guy touched you, so what? Someone who loves you enough to marry you won't even give a second thought about it. I know I wouldn't. So don't you ever worry about that. Besides, this must be happening also because you're quite a beautiful girl. So cheer up on that thought! :)

I'm sorry that I couldn't tell you something worth contributing. But I just couldn't go without saying something. So don't ever give up. Please let us be informed! We're all supporting you!

Sorry for the double post. I almost forgot about this. But did you tell your parents yet? They should be able to help you.