I'm going to be using fake names. My best friend will Ass. My girl friend will be bitch. I don't care if that's childish. Me and bitch have been together for about 3 months. We were always happy. We got pretty far and it was going great between us. Then I started to hang out with ass a little more and sometimes when me and bitch would hang out, ass would tag along. It was kinda fun. Until one day I found out that she hung out with ass a little by herself one day. I didn't think anything of it because they were ok friends. After a 8 or so times I started to worry. I didn't want to be that over protective prick so I didn't say anything. They kept hanging out alone and I had gotten too worried. I "spied" on them a little and it was a good thing I did. Sure it was creepy stalking but I don't care. I forgot to mention that I am only 13 ass is 13 and bitch is 14. Any way, I saw them go into ass' house , and I hoped that I had a good plan. I saw ass' light go on in his room and I knocked on the door, his dad answered, the plan was going good so far. He said ass was upstairs, I said thanks and slowly and quietly went up. I made it to the top now and my heart was beating as fast as could fucking be. I quickly swung the door open, and sure enough I found what I was worried about. I saw bitch, on top ass, making out. They were both shocked and didn't really say anything so I just turned around and left. She ran after me and said blah blah blah she was sorry blah blah blah i don't fucking care anymore. I'm 13 and I've already been cheated on... I just proof read this, and noticed how much it sounds like bait. Believe it or not, I don't really care, I just wanted somewhere to ask how I am supposed to deal with getting cheated on if I can't go to a bar like someone of age would.

I haven't really been cheated on but, I think what you should be doing is forgiving both. I know I sound like a saint. But think about it.. Love cannot be forced out of people. If they like each other, then what you can do is forgive them, hurt them, or ignore them. If you're a good person, just forgive them. That way at least you know you did an honorable thing. You can also forgive them, then ignore them. That's your choice.
Besides, it's only been a mere 3 months. Take it easy, you're only 13, you got far more rough patches in your life. If she left you, then that means she was never meant to be yours. Take it like a man!! ;)

I know it's going to be hard. But it is possible, right? So try your best at it. I also wanna hear what the other guys say about this.

Love at 13 or 14 is like a childish game. I love you and I love you too. Life also comes in love. Don't get too serious until you are over 18. Try being friends first and wait till you are older. You wouldn't even know what love is at 13, it could be misunderstood for liking someone and wanting to be friends. You can forgive you friend if you want to if you have the heart to. Do what will make you feel good. At the end you don't want to be feeling angry and bad all day.

That escalate quickly...perhaps because of different regions and nations *cough*. I must say, you have a quite interesting friend there. From what I see, they've been harboring feelings for each other behind your back, and finally they can't hold it anymore. My opinion is, you should clarify this with your friend who cheated on you...there must be a reason behind her action, dig all the information you get. Truth is essential here, after that it's all depends to you to forgive for her action or not.

Anyway according to my own perspective...13 or 14 years old, it's way too young but I can't say I'm correct. I must say I also surprise how things escalate so quickly...*literally dumbfounded*

I mean it depends on you to forgive them or not, sorry wrong typing

0.0 Mind blown... I am old enough to be in bars but I never even been able to talk to girls and I got enough friends to fit in one hand. Sorry if this doesn't help you but I feel you have a lot to begin with and its one of the things you never get until you lose them. Do you like your friend that much or do you love your girlfriend. That's a good place to start.

Questions.

Faaaaaake

O Sh#t, these hoes fake as F#CK.
But, it DOES get better. You are young, so just learn from this experience, ok? Nothing was your fault nor problem.
So be chill and roll with life.
Good Luck man.

You're much to young to let this consume you. Instead, focus on what's important. Sure, losing a friend is devastating, but life goes on. I'd say you just leave this behind, be the man and see the bigger picture. No one wants an ass for a friend or a bitch for a companion! Keep rolling.

bump poor guy i feel so bad

my nigga dont worry about these hoes you should have beat bitch and asses ass im foreal i feel your pain ive been cheated on before too and it hurts and i was 9 so i feel your pain dont worry just find another one plenty of fish in the sea