Okay here's the thing; my friend will be moving to Nebraska in 2 weeks. But I haven't seen him or talked to him since April 3rd. I mean, every now and then we message each other, but nothing more. We used to date for a while, me being a freshman and him a senior. Yeah, that gave everyone around me bad thoughts. Like he was taking advantage of me or something. I understand where they're comin from, now I can see what they mean, but yeah, at the time I was totally head over heels for the guy. Well, after April 3rd we both kinda got into some trouble with the local authorites. They let us off easy but my parents didn't. It took them til only recently to give my laptop back and to allow me to stay over at a friend's place. So yeah. I'm not allowed to have any contact with him, so I'd like this to be done as quickly as possible.
Now, mind you, I'm not going to throw myself at him now that he's moving. Nah, I've already cleared the fact that I no longer love him. But I'm worried about him. I have some of his clothes from when we dated and I've been meaning to give them back. That, and he has apparently outgrown his jackets to properly prepare himself for Nebraska snow. I'm hopin to find some old, baggy spares no one will mind missin and give em to him. That, and a proper good bye hug to send him off never hurt anyone.
He's been living with a friend down the street in the apartments. It's just a mile from where I live, and I'm sure I can make it work. I'm planning on staying after school for tutoring soon and ill be able to get the bus driver to let me off at the apartments. The tutorin bus would normally drop me off at five -ish in the afternoon so my visit will probably be half an hour, which is fine by me. What I'm worried about is the walk back home. I'd be following the road to get back to my place, and itd be a bit dark, what with these winter nights and all. And if there winds up being no tutoring due to exams, when's a good time to sneak out? If I sneakout from my place in the first place, I could at least travel by bike, but my visit would be even less than half an hour.
I don't think anyone can give you the right answer to this, just do what you want. There are little to no consequences to ether dissension you make. I guess that I would say if you do plan to go to his place just drop off his clothes on his porch, maybe a note or something and just leave it at that, no need to see him or give him a goodbye hug.
There are many things to take into consideration for example does your family have a security system does it make a noise when you type in the password o you even know the password and who is to say they dont wake up and look in your room and your not there so be sure to PLAN AHEAD
