i need advice, can you help me,
well, just a view hours ago i was chatting in the chat room, and maybe the other user in that chat room don't know i'm a bit responsive, so, when they don't respond i want to check the others, and i have a habit to check others but it seems a little much,and they think i'm spamming... but i didn't meant to, i like that chatroom so much that now they disband me (well, not every user in there)
what should i do?

I wouldn't make too big of a deal out of it. It was a simple misunderstanding, and it'll probably be forgotten soon. You can always find another chatroom (there are so, so many), and if you happen to find one of the users again and you really want to resolve the misunderstanding, just go in and try to quickly explain what happened. If they're reasonable, they'll understand.