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I have never been annoyed and disgusted ever (8)

1 Name: fghftr : 2014-11-21 10:36 ID:MuA7+UUl [Del]

My classmates are really annoying they are trying to push me to someone, let's call him Dave.I won't play safe and pretend anymore, all of my classmates tell me that he likes me. NONONON BUT I DON'T FIND HIM ATTRACTIVE AT ALL. And it's not just how he looks, he has this superiority complex where he thinks he's better than any of our classmates and calls himself a weirdo when he's just actually a pervert trying hard to be cool.I am really disgusted by the thought of that person. He thinks he's so high and almighty when he is not even handsome. My classmates like him because he's quiet and they say that he's kind but pwe, NO FREAKING WAY. They just don't know how horrible it is to hear the comments of a person with superiority complex. I really feel disgusted everytime they tease me, but ofcourse I couldn't tell anyone that it's terrible and disgusting, but if they don't stop, it may be possible. Dave is like most of the a-holes in the internet where they think they're better than everyone and are misogynists . We don't talk but I have to suffer the humiliation and awkwardness of working with that person because we're groupmates in our report for the whole year. I just really find it annoying and I may seemed rude, but this is just the place where I could vent my disgust. I know I'll be judged for this, but trust me, when you'll get to know that person, you'll feel the same way.
TELL ME WHAT TO DO SO THAT THEY'LL STOP.

2 Name: Ghoul : 2014-11-21 11:11 ID:7g5FRF2R [Del]

tell 'em to fuck off... that usually works for me when i'm trying to shut people up.
Of course, if you're trying to be more tactful, then i would suggest politely telling him that he's just not your type. Tell your friends that you really just don't like him at all. Now, I'm not saying you should be a bitch about it, cuz that's not good either. Just make the message clear, and make sure it gets through.
Btw, a little word of advice, Dave is probably just trying to act with bravado because he's trying to impress you (albeit, doing a horrible job at it) and feels as though you'll like him more if he holds himself with confidence. I'm not saying it's the case, but it's possible. Just don't make any hasty judgements or decisions either way.

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5 Name: Aia : 2014-11-22 01:45 ID:51ZdxfW3 [Del]

I feel how you feel! It's just! Ugh! It's like no way! Tell them that you are now angry! You don't like him. And if he likes you, you can't return the feelings!

6 Name: ChocolateSquirrel : 2014-11-22 09:08 ID:v8aWcuMU [Del]

Agree with >>2 tell them to fuck off. Either that or ignore them, they`re probably teasing you to get a reaction.

7 Name: Dragonhand : 2014-11-22 09:45 ID:NHJP/vCY [Del]

I get how you feel... but you know, sometimes that kind of attitude, is just a shield. He may not be a total ass.
In any case, if you have no interest in him, it's kind of simple, ignore. It will fade away.

8 Name: Celestial Envoy !bDuNCOUT7Q : 2014-11-22 11:28 ID:Ym1Axe85 [Del]

Yea, don't fall for that crap! If Dave is a dick then he's a dick, no need to stress yourself with that crap. As for your friends tell them that if they think that Dave is a cool guy then tell them that they got some sad low standards, if it's this easy to point out his flaws then it should be easy to say it to your friends. Yea they will make a comeback and say something to make you think your wrong but that's what friends do, push each others buttons. But t the end of the day were still hanging out with eachother having ball.
I remember when my friends where hanging out with me and one of them admitted to that he wanted to have a sex change, my friends wanted to support him through that but I didn't, I even told him that if he actually goes through with it that were not friends anymore. Naturally my other friends got pissed at me but I stood by my decision. Were sill really close, even though they hate that part of me they just deal with it and we still hang out like normal, even the guy getting the sex change (it hasn't happened yet).
So if I have friends who can respect that part of me then there is no reason your other friends shouldn't respect your decision for not going out with that guy, they will give you shit for it but it will workout.