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1 Name: Anonimy : 2014-11-19 00:31 ID:C1H47bja [Del]

Ever since I entered my third-year I have this seemingly strange... uhmm, occurance? or thats what you call it? Well anyways, Everytime I always feel like im being ignored, like whenever i talk, or refer to someone, or even call out to someone, It seems like they don't hear me or something and just do what they are doing that made me go awkward. I thought that i was not really standing out much. But in my academics i was not that all bad (I even won a contest in Technolympics HTML coding 2014), and I think im not that ugly that scared away people. and no, I'm not a delinquent or have a bad attitude. (I even put others in importance of myself). So why?

I was not really bothered at first and was fine being alone if that's what they want it. But, when i ask questions about something be it assignments or how-to's it had really put me in a fix.

I have made guesses about it,

First guess: I almost flunked at math (I havent passed all my outputs since our town was in a typhoon and my house was hit pretty bad but my grades in other subjects are high.). You see i am in a special class in our place, and everyone considered us as the best, maybe my classmates see me as a failure for almost failing.

Second guess: I'm not socially active, I always lock myself to my room and do what I want. From drawing - to disassembling my fridge. and would not participte in social gathering in the beach or go roaming with my classmates. I think its too tiring.

Third guess: Sometime i confessed my feelings to a girl, which she turned down. I felt that after that time the ignoring began. so maybe it was one of the factors.

fourth guess: It's my charisma to be ignored

Last guess: I am cursed.

Anyone that would give some thought about it would be very much appreciated!!
Thnks in advance.

2 Name: Toreadork : 2014-11-19 04:19 ID:btcWIgr7 [Del]

Good news, I don't think you're cursed(: I think it may have something to do with you isolating yourself, but I doubt that's the only reason. Maybe the people around you just don't feel like making a new connection ? Maybe they really don't hear when you ask something because there's too much background noise or you're not loud enough? I'm really not sure about that one, but be confident in yourself because you already sound like a brave, smart person, and if you don't wanna put yourself out there, don't feel like you have to^^ Do what makes you comfortable. If they really are just ignoring you, they're jerks.