An accident occurred a couple days ago and it was revealed that my girl best friend is in love with one of my friends. Her crush...loves me.

She confessed about her feelings to me about him. She tells me about how she feels towards my relationship with him and how she felt about how close we were. It made her uncomfortable to see us so close. She knows about how he loves me, and it hurts her. Though this is true, she doesn't want for me and him to stop being friends. I asked her if she would ever confess to him and she's too shy too. It's really hard for her to do it due to really low self esteem.

What should I do? I don't want to make her unhappy. Should I even feel this way? What am I doing wrong, if I even am doing anything wrong? I don't want to lose either of them, and the last time this kind of situation happened, I lost all my friends. These two...mean the world to me.

Should I not feel guilty? Or should I back off?

>>1 You should back off because she likes someone else, and not you.

Two things
One: She should not waist her time on someone who won't return the same feeling she has for him.
Two: YOU should not waits your time on friends who can't respect what you do in your personal life (I don't know how you can call someone like that a friend). Obviously im not saying that you should tell them that, but if it does come down to it, getting rid of her would be better for you.
Yea there's no sugar coating this, im sorry to say that someone will probably get hurt through all this, it might be you, her or even all three of you. Of course there's that slim chance that it will workout for all of you and the way that's going to happen is dependent on how strong your friendship is together, friendship pulls you through some crazy shit (I know from experience) and I hope for the best for you. Please take care of yourself.

>>1 dont back of. If she wants you to back off, thats selfish, and she is not really your friend.
Do ou want them to be together? If they are, you would be the you know, extra wheel?
I mean, its not nice to have your best friends dating. Its lonely ;-;
Anyway, I have a feeling she will move on. I mean tell her how you feel about them dating and say Im sorry I cant help.

Or you can try to help them get together but since the guy likes you it would be for nothing.

When they start dating, it would be lonely for you. You cant be as close as you were before.

Its all up to you, you can either help or dont help but since she is your best friend you can consider helping too.
Its a choice you have to make yourself
Good luck >~<

>>4 I agree with what you mean.
It's just...they mean a lot to me and I want to give them space so that she can try to spend some time with him alone. It /is/ lonely and things won't be the same...

I want the both of them to be happy, much more than my own. I don't mind being hurt because of this. I just don't like having to think about this all the time because she talks to me about how much she likes him and..well..he's one of my closest friends. I see him all the time and it hurts not to be around him as it is now.

I suppose that this is something I need to get used to...

>>3 Thank you for your reply. I understand what you mean as well.