Okay I'll just get right to it. My parents are fighting because someone bitch at her work place stated that my mom was having an affair, and so we all know what that means... Family problems. And so because of that my parents have to go to a meeting of sorts in order to tell if she really did or not, and the problem here is that my father is a sexist bitch of a coward. And so my whole family knows that my father has cheated multiple times with about four other women, and as I mentioned early he is a sexist prick, so he believes that just because he is a man he is allowed to do it and also generously stated that it makes a man look better if he sleeps with other women, but it makes a women look like worthless trash if they were to cheat. And another problem is that my father never shuts the fuck up and proceeds to spread the "news" to his just as equally filthy scum friends, and me and my siblings even argued with my father about how much of a dumb jackass he was for trying to play the victim in the whole scenario and how he chooses to trust some dirty ass bitch (that cheated on her own husband) over my mom that he married and had kids with. And in order to keep his "honor" (more like his shit stained honor or if he even had any to begin with) he will leave my mom and go merry way, so basically he chooses himself over his wife and kids, and I've seen what my father has done to my mom, he has continued to bring it up over and over again and continues to point his dirty finger at my mom and make her cry and she has said over and over that she never did it, and I even saw how red and swollen her eyes were from all the crying and hearing her broken voice, forced smiles, and shattered laughter it just brings me to my knees and beg that someone for save her from the prejudice of which is my father, he has even almost driven her away once. So all I really need at the moment is some advice (sorry for my fowl language but I'm really angry at my father).

Man that must suck so much, I'm very sorry that is happening. I hope it will smooth out in the end. <3

I am so sorry that this happen D: Honestly, of I were you, find one on one time with your mom. Tell her how much of an amazing mother and person she is and howuch you love her. In today's would a woman can do just fine on her own! What would be best for her and your family is to kick your father out and devorce him. I know she may love him and it will be extremely hard, but in the end she will be happier and can find someone who truely loves her and will treat her the way a man should! Let her know you have her back! And tell her your friends The Dollars have her back as well! Give her a big hug for me and tell her I say "You are a beautiful woman, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise!"

Erika's right you're mom should divorce him and leave, this abuse is not acceptable,I believe the only reason that she is staying with him is the fact that she DOES have children and she might also love him still. What i would do is show you're mother that you love her and also try to make her realize that she should never have to deal with abuse. I hope all goes well with you're mother Ive had a similar situation but luckily i was to young for it to affect me. Good luck :)

I'm really sorry. Honest. I wish I had some perfect plan for you to carry out that would make everything perfect, alas..no such luck :/
But, you know? You can do better, you can BE better. Who cares what that idiot of a boy who calls himself "father" says or does. YOU be better. DO better. Be what it is your Mum needs and what she needs right now is for you to love her. Show her that you care, that it actually doesn't matter what kind of a dumbass your child of a father is. Honestly, tell her she is amazingly strong for staying where she's at for the sake of her kids. And if she hasn't left because she's afraid? Help her by giving her the strength she needs to leave.
And about your father? Well, don't even bother with him. Just tell him that what he did/does is NOT okay. Not one bit. Someone needs to (not that I think he'll listen) and just leave him alone.
And hey? You got this. It might not seem like it. It might seem like the whole world is just a bowl of bull, but it'll be okay. Whatever is happening with your parents is not about you. YOU can be so much more!

Thanks, and I've also been thinking too. If my father as the inability to make my mom happy then I at least want to be the one that can make her happy, even if it's just a little bit.

:D
I'm glad!