1 Name: IdiotCandyCornDerp : 2014-10-19 22:50 ID:rRkbF9Ub [Del]
So, my boyfriend and I were going out for like three months, right? And, yeah, by the title you can kind of tell that we got "kinky". Well, we never got all the way, because when he looked at me, you know down there, he saw that my hymen was broken. the reason why it was is because when I did gymnastics, I hit my crotch against the beam. And yeah. He didn't believe me when I told him this. He thought that I had gone and cheated on him, even though I am a virgin. He broke up with me, and his best friend told me he had only been going out with me to get in my pants because I'm a virgin. So now, I'm here pondering. Why? Whhhhy? If he just wanted to get into someones pants, there are many other people for that. I just, I just don't know anymore. Does that mean that everyone thinks I'm a slut now or something? *Sigh* I just don't know anymore. =~=
2 Name: Kuroi Karasu : 2014-10-19 23:52 ID:4+EkEXtT [Del]
I would just dump him and forget about him. Did you really like him that much? and no you are NOT a bas person.
3 Name: Juliet : 2014-10-20 00:28 ID:eV1Lv9Br [Del]
>>1Get over it. He is a jerk. You arent a slut. If he loved you, he would have believed you. Its highly possible that he just wanted to get in your pants. Sorry but you have to get over him >~<
4 Name: Sid : 2014-10-20 01:22 ID:byJM/vyk [Del]
Move on, you'll find someone better. He could have just been trying to find an excuse to get out of it. Doesn't really sound like you are at fault, since he didn't listen to anything you said on the matter. If he truly did listen and have feelings he would have understood, but most likely he didn't.
5 Name: Erika !IMCadVsMqg : 2014-10-20 02:30 ID:ldt1/G5/ [Del]
Don't feel down on yourself sweetie :) I'm guessing your in high school right? Let me tell you a secret............ Nothing that anyone says or thinks of you in high school matters. No matter who you are rumors are going to spred one way or another. No one is alone in this. Keep your head up. If anyone says anything to you about it just laugh. Tell then the whole situation is silly really and move on with your life. I'm sorry this happened to you though. It's shitty to get played like that and it does take some time to heal. No, you are not a bad person. You're just young and figuring life out. Remember out motto "Smile. The worlds not as bad as you think." and also remember the Dollars are always here for you.
6 Name: Hidden !yxSN/bs2A2 : 2014-10-20 16:24 ID:+xwV92ok [Del]
This is why guys need to get educated... Your hymen isn't broken, and yes it's still gonna hurt your first time... what prob happened was something refered to as "popping the cherry"... it literally can happen with anything, and it's like the first step of breaking the hymen... so yea... Also, unless the guy is going around the school spreading rumors and stuff then no, your not a slut... although 3 months is kinda a short amount of time to go all the way with someone... Also, all he was doing is trying to get in your pants if he can't even listen to you... in the end, all that I can say is don't go so quickly in relationships, because guys will take advantage of that, and if it keeps happening like that you'll be known as "easy" which is almost like a slut...
7 Name: Dragonhand : 2014-10-20 17:42 ID:NHJP/vCY [Del]
Point 1, that gymnastic story is fishy as hell, had to say it.
Point 2, I don't give a damn and he shouldn't give a damn too. What would be the problem if you had sex with some one b4 going out with him...
It's not that virginity is an over rated thing, it is not, it is your very first experience and you deserve a good one, with some one that relay cares about you, not some kid who has only one goal, jump on your pants.
So forget the little runt, he deserves you not. Find some one who cherish you, who is capable of moving mountains to make you happy, don't wait the perfect prince, he does not fucking exist, just some one who likes you, for real with all the qualities and defects that compose the existence that is you. Also you have to feel the same for him, that should be most obvious.
SEX IS GREAT, SEX IS ONE OF THE BEST THINGS YOU CAN DO, with some one you love, not some punk who could not even give you the benefit of doubt.
8 Name: Erika !IMCadVsMqg : 2014-10-20 18:03 ID:B9/n9Xcn [Del]
Actually, the gymnastics thing happens alot. Same for girls who ride horses alot.
9 Name: Dragonhand : 2014-10-20 19:10 ID:NHJP/vCY [Del]
Didn't knew, thank you... still the point is the same. She deserves to find some one who like her for real, some one who cares about her. Then, ma friend!!! Have sex, loads of sex, day and night, and cuddle, a lot, then have more sex (SAFE SEX, cond, pill, what ever, but safe), kiss, have some more sex, what ever you fell like. But find a decent guy.
Joke aside, gL finding some one worthy, even if it's not forever, enjoy every little bit of it, life is long but it's also short, being happy should not be too much to ask ;)~
10 Name: Izanii : 2014-10-20 19:22 ID:EywN/w35 [Del]
Dear Dragonhand,
PREACH IT!
P.s. i dont think i've heard/seen somebody say sex that many times.
11 Name: BarabiSama !lmBitchbiw : 2014-10-20 19:34 ID:o7YaVxEo [Del]
>>7 >>8 Same with bike riding and a ton of sports. Using tampons can also break it. Masturbation can break it. Your hymen really isn't as sturdy of a thing as the movies like to pretend, and the more active women are from a young age, the more likely they are to lose it way before their first time. It was way more reliable back in the days when women just sewed and danced xD
12 Name: Rorrun : 2014-10-22 00:49 ID:YVuBWe42 [Del]
I thought a boyfriend is supposed to love his girlfriend and not her pussy. Well, that wasn't really much of a relationship if only he wanted to extinguish his physical urges. Forget about him, he will grow up to be a pedo.
13 Name: Allan K. Captor : 2014-10-25 04:48 ID:K0gtAJik [Del]
You aren't one. He was the one that lied and decided to act like an ass. You didn't know, thinking that he loved you. He's the slut. It's okay.
