I hate being alone. It sucks and I'm scared that I'm going to be like this for the rest of my life. The girl I had was great and she was my first. She broke my heart, and I couldn't trust someone for awhile but now I'm want to try agia. there isn't a lot of girls in my town who want to date a guy like me I'm a nerd, jobless,carless and no place of my own, but I'm trying to get a job but so far no luck

It will definitely help to get employed, considering if you can keep your parents out of your wallet. You may find someone there, or at least somebody that would help you network to find a better pool. I live on my own, and work like a dog, but I worry about this all the time. I've never really had a girlfriend, so it's pretty hard to know if there's any right way to change things. I also have a lot of distrust towards women in general, due to a lot of financial, psychological, medical, and gender-related abuse, and a lot of nasty rumours that piss me off. I'll be twenty in March, but seriously doubt I'll have any luck by then... I tried to ask someone out over the Summer at a concert, so it may help to try and get into events like that. She did change her mind and find another guy without giving me a real chance though, so it might be a little hit-or-miss. Still, just try to expand your world as much as you can, and maybe you'll find someone decent... One other problem I tend to have is that usually when I find a woman I'm attracted to, it'll turn out she's married, and all I can think is: dammit... DAMMIT... DAMMIIIIIIT!!! Heh... Anyway, cheers, and best of luck to ya.

we all have our one and only person just waiting for us^^

well i have my ow thoughts about love

I know how you feel. I had a boyfriend but it was long distance and I want someone close to me. I'm 18 and now I regret breaking up with y boyfriend because he lives to far. Everyone around where I live hates me. Guys just don't like me where I live

Look man, I'm not gonna give you useless crap about love and whatever and finding your soul mate. There are more serious matters from what I can see.

First off, you need to learn to love yourself before loving another person. Being jobless is ok as long as you're looking for work. If you're careless about yourself, then stop, because you won't be able to care for others this way. Being a nerd isn't a bad thing though. These are only based off what you told me; you have to figure out what really needs to be changed in your life.

What I'm saying is improve yourself first before getting into a relationship. Nobody expects you to be perfect, but damn you gotta at least have something to bring to the table. It's important to be there for your partner when they need it, and them you, but if you're a mess you won't be able to help them when they need you most.

Being alone is not something you should hate. If you could give a quick explanation of why you think it sucks, it may be easier for others to advise you.
Even if you're like it for the rest of your life, there may not be any great need to change. Some rocks are smooth, some are sharp. There is no shame in being different.
Being a 'jobless nerd with no car' is a description rife with negativity. You should try and focus on things you think would be attractive.
"I'm very keen when it comes to (insert interest here), and I feel like having somebody to share it with would make both of us happier."

Due to the powers that be, it's ill advised to pursue a romantic relationship without a source of income. There are priorities when it comes to life, such as food, shelter and internet. These are the basics. Once you've acquired those, you should move up the chain. It will probably come quite naturally if you sort out what comes first. I'll attach a picture of Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
(You don't have to agree with it, by the way. It might just help give you direction.)