So hey there :D

My freind has a crush on that really nice girl. The prblem is he likes her for already like a long time but he is extremely shy when talking to girls.
Do any of you know a way of encouragement????
Because he is my bro and I really want him to be happy with her.

So if there is any help :D greatly appreciated :D by me and him ^_^

other than that, have a great dollars day :-)

If she's nice then he should just do it. :)

Trueffelpinguin,

Introverts rarely ever change. Even if it is for a crush. That being said, there's a few options here. One, he doesn't approach her, she gets snatched away by another guy/gal, he loses her and eventually forgets her. Two, he subtly greets with a hi; a wave; a genuine smile. When she's not so busy; alone, walk up and compliment her, allow her to return a happy or even a blushed expression. Don't be forceful, and she'll remember his face and what he said; a memory to the human mind is more concrete when what they see/hear/taste/smell is also experienced with what they felt; having that simple connection. Or three, where you step in; the wing-man/wing-woman. If you are up for it, bump into her or w/e, anything to start a conversation, introduce yourself, make her an acquaintance. Later on, spontaneously walk with your buddy, pass by her and such; have her recognize his face enough that she'll ask about him next time you two converse. The other option is to just walk up to her with your friend, exchange a few words, then introduce; try using his nickname, if he's got one, if not, that's fine. Tell her how long you known him, what class you're in together or if he's in hers, perhaps? Say that you always copy off his hw for math or something, whisper to her, "if you ever need help a.k.a. copy hw, he's your guy." If she is nice as you say, she'll giggle, "that's so mean!" (Unless she takes advantage of your proposition) State a few good qualities about him, don't over-exaggerate; she'll sense the BS. Edify, or so they say in the network-marketing business. After, just rush off, "gotta catch my next class, see ya." What happens next is up to him to decide.

Now, I'm not gonna go over what he should, should not say; do; act, etc. Be himself. She doesn't appreciate that? It's his choice to change, be with his crush, and have the unsatisfactory feeling of being someone he's not. Otherwise, he can stay how he is, and result into like I said before; lose her, forgets her. At least, he gets to keep that integrity.

If it works out in the end, great. If not, great. Plenty of fish in the sea. (This is where they reply, "but she was the OCEAN.") Anyways, good luck.

- YITMAS

If he's shy he'll never get anywhere, so you have to do what I do to my friends:
I make sure that they "somehow" (which is just code word for planning) end up near the person they like. This way they might think, "Well, this is my only chance. I guess I should go for it." My friends usually do, even the shy ones, but I don't know about your friend, so this might not help.
Words of encouragement: It's now or never.

Guys, thankyou a lot :D
He says he really wants to ask her out now but I have the feeling he still is really scared :D I think I will "somehow" get them near each other like Dylan said.
MAybe I should really wing but I think he wants to do it on his own :D I will just get him close :D

Thanks a lot again :-)

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if you wanna join, then you have to ask for the friendship of the man who owns the group. Adam Ace Eriksson.
i hope that i´ll get to see you all at facebook^^